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[[File:Pinky swear.JPG|thumb|A pinky swear]]
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To '''pinky swear''', or make a '''pinky promise''', is the entwining of the [[Little finger#Cultural significance|little fingers ("pinkies")]] of two people to signify that a promise has been made.
[[File: Pinky swear.JPG|thumb|Pinky promise]]


To make a '''pinky promise''', or '''pinky swear''', is a traditional gesture most commonly practiced amongst children involving the locking of the [[Little finger|pinkies]] of two people to signify that a [[promise]] has been made. The gesture is taken to signify that the person can break the finger of the one who broke the promise.{{cn|date=May 2024}} The tradition appears to be a relatively modern invention, possibly as a continuation of older finger traditions.<ref name=":0">{{Cite book|last=Roud|first=Stephen|title=The Lore of the Playground: One Hundred Years of Children's Games, Rhymes and Traditions|publisher=Random House|year=2010|isbn=9781905211517}}</ref><ref>{{Cite news|last=Roud|first=Steve|date=October 29, 2010|title=The state of play|work=The Guardian|url=https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2010/oct/30/children-play-games-playground}}</ref>
In the United States, the pinky swear has existed since at least 1860, when ''Bartlett's Dictionary of Americanisms'' listed the following accompanying promise:


== Prevalence worldwide ==
:''Pinky, pinky bow-bell,''
In North America, it is most common amongst school-aged children or adults and close friends and has existed since at least 1860, when the ''Dictionary of Americanisms'' listed the following accompanying promise:
:''Whoever tells a lie''
:''Will sink down to the bad place'' {{sic}}
:''And never rise up again.''<ref name=pinky>{{cite web|url=http://books.google.com/books?id=42UPAAAAYAAJ&q=pinky#v=snippet&q=pinky&f=false|title=Pinky|publisher=googlebooks|work=Bartlett's Dictionary of Americanisms|accessdate=2013-05-25}}</ref>


<blockquote><poem>Pinky, pinky bow-bell,
Pinky swearing presumably started in Japan, where it is called {{Nihongo||指切り|'''yubikiri'''|"finger cut-off"}} and often additionally confirmed with the vow {{Nihongo|"Finger cut-off, ten thousand fist-punchings, whoever lies has to swallow thousand needles."|指切りげんまんうそついたら針千本ます|"Yubikiri genman uso tsuitara hari senbon nomasu"}}.<ref>[[Daijirin]]</ref> The gesture may be connected to the Japanese belief that soulmates are connected by a [[red string of fate]] attached to each of their pinkies.
Whoever tells a lie
Will sink down to the bad place
And never rise up again.<ref name=pinky>{{cite web|url=https://books.google.com/books?id=42UPAAAAYAAJ&q=pinky|title=Pinky|publisher=googlebooks|work=Bartlett's Dictionary of Americanisms|access-date=2013-05-25|year=1860}}</ref></poem></blockquote>


Pinky swearing has origins in Japan from 1600 to 1803, where it is called {{Nihongo||指切り|'''yubikiri'''|"finger cut-off"}} and often additionally confirmed with the vow {{Nihongo|"Pinky swear, whoever lies will be made to swallow a thousand needles."|指切り拳万、嘘ついたら針千本ます|"Yubikiri genman, uso tsuitara hari senbon nomasu"}}.<ref>[[Daijirin]]</ref>
In Japan, the pinky swear originally indicated that the person who breaks the promise must [[Yubitsume|cut off their pinky finger]].<ref>Hill, Peter B. E.: "The Japanese Mafia: Yakuza, law, and the state", p. 75. [[Oxford University Press|Oxford Univ. Press]], 2003</ref> {{dubious|date=April 2013}} In modern times, pinky swearing is a more informal way of sealing a promise. It is most common among school-age children and close friends. The pinky swear signifies a promise that cannot be broken or counteracted by the [[crossed fingers|crossing of fingers]] or other such trickery.<ref>Iwai, H . Byōri Shūdan: "Sheishin-Shobō", p. 225. 1963</ref>

Recently, in South Korea, the hooked pinky has been followed by a "seal", wherein the thumbs touch each other while the pinkies are still hooked.<ref>Archived at [https://ghostarchive.org/varchive/youtube/20211205/28pUzpLVpYo Ghostarchive]{{cbignore}} and the [https://web.archive.org/web/20150905042611/https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=28pUzpLVpYo Wayback Machine]{{cbignore}}: {{cite web| url = https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=28pUzpLVpYo| title = Pinky Promises in Korean - 새끼손가락 걸고 약속! | website=[[YouTube]]}}{{cbignore}}</ref><ref>{{Cite web|url=https://aminoapps.com/c/k-drama/page/blog/the-korean-promise-yagsog-yaksok/V0Ph_7u5PRzZwlRdXQ4dJqrdYNV0bPQ|title=The Korean Promise 👍"약속" (yaksok) &#124; K-Drama Amino|website=aminoapps.com|access-date=Aug 6, 2020}}</ref>

In Taiwan, stamping after hooking pinkies has been commonplace for over 30 years.

In [[Belfast]], [[Northern Ireland]] it is referred to as a "piggy promise".<ref name=":0" />

In Italy, a similar tradition is called "giurin giurello" or "giurin giuretto/-a".
In Maharashtra (India), this concept similarly using Marathi calls this "Gatti fu".

There is also another pinky swear promise made between children in the Isle of Man. It goes:
"Make friends, make friends,
Never ever break friends,
If you do,
You'll catch the flu,
And that will be the end of you!"

==See also==
*[[List of children's games|Children's games]]
*[[Jinx (game)]]


==References==
==References==
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==External links==
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Latest revision as of 16:17, 28 September 2024

Pinky promise

To make a pinky promise, or pinky swear, is a traditional gesture most commonly practiced amongst children involving the locking of the pinkies of two people to signify that a promise has been made. The gesture is taken to signify that the person can break the finger of the one who broke the promise.[citation needed] The tradition appears to be a relatively modern invention, possibly as a continuation of older finger traditions.[1][2]

Prevalence worldwide

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In North America, it is most common amongst school-aged children or adults and close friends and has existed since at least 1860, when the Dictionary of Americanisms listed the following accompanying promise:

Pinky, pinky bow-bell,
Whoever tells a lie
Will sink down to the bad place
And never rise up again.[3]

Pinky swearing has origins in Japan from 1600 to 1803, where it is called yubikiri (指切り, "finger cut-off") and often additionally confirmed with the vow "Pinky swear, whoever lies will be made to swallow a thousand needles." (指切り拳万、嘘ついたら針千本呑ます, "Yubikiri genman, uso tsuitara hari senbon nomasu").[4]

Recently, in South Korea, the hooked pinky has been followed by a "seal", wherein the thumbs touch each other while the pinkies are still hooked.[5][6]

In Taiwan, stamping after hooking pinkies has been commonplace for over 30 years.

In Belfast, Northern Ireland it is referred to as a "piggy promise".[1]

In Italy, a similar tradition is called "giurin giurello" or "giurin giuretto/-a".

In Maharashtra (India), this concept similarly using Marathi calls this "Gatti fu".

There is also another pinky swear promise made between children in the Isle of Man. It goes: "Make friends, make friends, Never ever break friends, If you do, You'll catch the flu, And that will be the end of you!"

See also

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References

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  1. ^ a b Roud, Stephen (2010). The Lore of the Playground: One Hundred Years of Children's Games, Rhymes and Traditions. Random House. ISBN 9781905211517.
  2. ^ Roud, Steve (October 29, 2010). "The state of play". The Guardian.
  3. ^ "Pinky". Bartlett's Dictionary of Americanisms. googlebooks. 1860. Retrieved 2013-05-25.
  4. ^ Daijirin
  5. ^ Archived at Ghostarchive and the Wayback Machine: "Pinky Promises in Korean - 새끼손가락 걸고 약속!". YouTube.
  6. ^ "The Korean Promise 👍"약속" (yaksok) | K-Drama Amino". aminoapps.com. Retrieved Aug 6, 2020.
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