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{{Short description|One of two or more individuals having at least one parent in common}} |
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{{hatnote|"Siblings" redirect here. For other uses, see [[Siblings (disambiguation)]].}} |
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A '''sibling''' is a relative that shares at least one [[parent]] with the other person. A [[male]] sibling is a [[brother]], and a [[female]] sibling is a [[sister]]. A person with no siblings is an [[only child]]. |
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A '''sibling''' is one of two or more individuals having one or both parents in common. A male sibling is a [[brother]], and a female sibling is a [[sister]]. In most societies throughout the world, siblings often grow up together, thereby facilitating the development of strong [[human bonding|emotional bonds]]. The emotional bond between siblings is often complicated and is influenced by factors such as parental treatment, [[birth order]], [[Personality psychology|personality]], and personal experiences outside the family.<ref name="psychtoday">{{cite web |author=Mersky Leder, Jane |url=http://www.psychologytoday.com/articles/pto-19930101-000023.html |title=Adult Sibling Rivalry |publisher=Psychology Today |date=Jan–Feb 1993 |accessdate=November 28, 2006}}</ref> |
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However, there are cases where siblings grow up in separate homes, in different environments. It is known that both [[nature and nurture]] figure in development; researchers are attempting to ascertain just which one plays the larger role. |
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[[File:Me and my other brother.jpg|thumb|A [[sister]] (female sibling) carrying her [[brother]] (male sibling).]] |
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[[Identical twins]] share 100% of their [[DNA]].<ref name="Understanding genetics"/> Full siblings are first-degree [[Kinship|relatives]] and, on average, share 50% of their genes out of those that [[human genetic variation|vary among humans]].<ref name="Understanding genetics">{{cite web|last=Dr. Shafer|first=Aaron|title=Understanding genetics|url=http://genetics.thetech.org/ask/ask166|work=The Tech|publisher=Stanford University|accessdate=13 December 2013}}</ref> Half-siblings are second-degree relatives and have, on average, a 25% overlap in their human genetic variation.<ref name="Why half siblings share 25% of their DNA - Understanding"/> |
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While some circumstances can cause siblings to be raised separately (such as [[foster care]]), most societies have siblings grow up together. This causes the development of strong [[human bonding|emotional bonds]], with siblinghood considered a unique type of relationship. The emotional bond between siblings is often complicated and is influenced by factors such as parental treatment, [[birth order]], [[Personality psychology|personality]], and personal experiences outside the family.<ref name="psychtoday">{{cite magazine |author=Mersky Leder, Jane |url=http://www.psychologytoday.com/articles/pto-19930101-000023.html |title=Adult Sibling Rivalry |magazine=Psychology Today |date=Jan–Feb 1993 |access-date=November 28, 2006 |url-status=dead |archive-url=https://archive.today/20121211220721/http://www.psychologytoday.com/articles/pto-19930101-000023.html |archive-date=December 11, 2012 }}</ref> |
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==Types of siblings== |
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Medically, a full-sibling is a [[first-degree relative]] and a half-sibling is a [[second-degree relative]] as they are related by 50% and 25%, respectively.<ref>{{cite web |url=https://www.bcbst.com/mpmanual/First_and_Second_Degree_Relative.htm |title=First, Second and Third Degree Relative |website= www.bcbst.com |publisher=BlueCross BlueShield of Tennessee, Inc}}</ref><ref>{{cite web |url=https://www.uab.edu/humanresources/home/images/M_images/Relations/PDFS/FAMILY%20MEMBER%20CHART.pdf |title=CONSANGUINITY / AFFINITY CHART |website=[[University of Alabama at Birmingham]]}}</ref> |
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===Full sibling=== |
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==Definitions== |
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{{more citations needed section|date=April 2023}} |
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[[File:Haitian brothers.jpg|thumb|Two brothers from [[Haiti]].]] |
[[File:Haitian brothers.jpg|thumb|Two brothers from [[Haiti]].]] |
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[[File:Full Siblings.PNG|thumb|Full siblings]] |
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The word ''sibling'' was reintroduced in 1903 in an article in ''[[Biometrika]]'', as a translation for the German ''Geschwister'', having not been used since Middle English, specifically 1425.<ref>{{cite journal|year=1903|first1=Karl|last1=Pearson|author-link=Karl Pearson|first2=Alice|last2=Lee|author-link2=Alice Lee (mathematician)|journal=Biometrika|title=On the laws of inheritance in man|volume=2|issue=4|page=369|doi=10.2307/2331507|jstor=2331507|url=https://archive.org/details/blumenzeitung13hssl/page/369|quote=These [calculations] will enable us... to predict the probable character in any individual from a knowledge of one or more parents or brethren (“siblings,” = brothers or sisters).}}</ref><ref>{{cite web|url=https://getd.libs.uga.edu/pdfs/wang_elizabeth_g_200912_ma.pdf|title=Gone But Not Forgotten: Persistence and Revival in the History of English Word Loss|author=Elizabeth Grace Wang|pages=35–36|quote=The primary word under consideration in this chapter is sibling, which during the Old English period referred simply to a relation, not necessarily to a brother or sister, as in the modern use of the term. The last recorded use in the Oxford English Dictionary in the relative sense is in 1425. There are no records at all of the word for the next 500 years, although its derivational base sib remained in use throughout those years. It was in fact the term sib which, when employed specifically in the fields of anthropology and genetics, gave rise to the readoption of sibling. Sibling, in the narrower modern sense of describing the relationship between two people sharing a common parent, filled a semantic gap in the English lexicon, as there previously was no term to describe the fraternal relationship that did not specify gender. It is clear from early uses of sibling in the 20th century that the writer did not expect the reader to be familiar with the word, as the translator’s note from a German eugenics book, Human Heredity explains, ‘The word “sib” or “sibling” is coming into use in genetics in the English-speaking world, as an equivalent of the convenient German term “Geschwister” and as a general name for all children born of the same parents, that is to say, to denote brothers and sisters without distinction of sex.’ (Baur 1931: 508 in sibling, OED). Likewise, an article in the journal Biometrika from 1903 contains the clarification, ‘“siblings”=brothers or sisters,’ when employing the term. Thus we observe an interesting phenomenon of a native English word being reintroduced to native English speakers, who clearly have no knowledge of it.}}</ref> |
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''Full siblings'' (full brothers or full sisters) have the same biological parents and are 50% related (full siblings share 50% of their genes out of those that [[human genetic variation|vary among humans]]).<ref name="Understanding genetics"/><ref name="Why half siblings share 25% of their DNA - Understanding"/> [[Identical twin]]s by definition are 100% related.<ref name="Understanding genetics"/> |
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{{anchor|Full}}Siblings or '''full-siblings''' ([''full''] ''sisters'' or ''brothers'') share the same biological parents. Full-siblings are also the most common type of siblings.{{Citation needed|date=June 2020}} [[Twin]]s are siblings that are born from the same pregnancy.<ref>{{Citation |title=twin |url=https://medical-dictionary.thefreedictionary.com/twin |work=The Free Dictionary |access-date=2023-06-22}}</ref> Often, twins with a close relationship will develop a [[twin language]] from infanthood, a language only shared and understood between the two. Studies corroborate that identical twins appear to display more twin talk than fraternal twins. At about 3, twin talk usually ends.<ref>{{cite journal|last1=Hayashi|first1=C|last2=Mikami|first2=H|last3=Nishihara|first3=R|last4=Maeda|first4=C|last5=Hayakawa|first5=K|title=The relationship between twin language, twins' close ties, and social competence|journal=Twin Research and Human Genetics |date=2014|volume=17|issue=1|pages=27–37|doi=10.1017/thg.2013.83|pmid=24330841|s2cid=31514697|doi-access=free}}</ref> Twins generally share a greater bond due to growing up together and being the same age. |
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====Twins==== |
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There are two type of twins, [[Identical twins|identical]] and [[Fraternal twins|fraternal]]. Identical twins have exactly the same genes; fraternal twins are no more similar than regular siblings. Often, twins with a close relationship will develop a [[twin language]] from infanthood, a language only shared and understood between the two. Studies suggest that identical twins appear to display more twin talk than fraternal twins. At about 3 years of age, twin talk usually ends.<ref>{{cite journal|last1=Hayashi|first1=C|last2=Mikami|first2=H|last3=Nishihara|first3=R|last4=Maeda|first4=C|last5=Hayakawa|first5=K|title=The relationship between twin language, twins' close ties, and social competence|journal=Twin Research And Human Genetics |date=2014|volume=17|issue=1|pages=27–37|doi=10.1017/thg.2013.83}}</ref> |
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{{anchor|Half}}'''Half-siblings''' ('''half-sisters''' or '''half-brothers''') are people who share one parent. They may share the same mother but different fathers (in which case they are known as ''uterine'' siblings or ''maternal half-siblings''), or they may have the same father but different mothers (in which case, they are known as ''agnate'' siblings or ''paternal half-siblings''. In law, the term ''[[Consanguinity|consanguine]]'' is used in place of agnate).{{citation needed|date=June 2020}} In law (and especially [[inheritance]] law), half-siblings have often been accorded treatment unequal to that of full-siblings. Old English [[common law]] at one time incorporated inequalities into the laws of [[Intestacy|intestate succession]], with half-siblings taking only half as much property of their intestate siblings' estates as siblings of full-blood. Unequal treatment of this type has been wholly abolished in [[England]],<ref>{{Cite web|title = Marriage: legitimacy and adoption|url = http://www.parliament.uk/about/living-heritage/transformingsociety/private-lives/relationships/overview/legitimacyadoption/|website = UK Parliament|access-date = 2015-08-03}}</ref> but still exists in Florida.<ref>Fla. Stat. s. 732.105.</ref> |
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Knowing from past studies that genetics played a larger role in one's personality during the earlier years, researchers were interested in older subjects, as to whether their theory still held. They gathered subjects with a mean age of 59, including 99 pairs of identical twins and 229 pairs of fraternal twins who were all reared separately; and 160 pairs of identical twins and 229 pairs of fraternal twins who were all reared separately. They studied the most inheritable personality traits: emotionality, activity level, and sociability (also known as EAS). The study found that identical twins resembled each other twice as much as fraternal twins, due to genetic factors. Furthermore, environment influences personality substantially, but it has little to do with whether twins are raised together or apart. It also suggests that inheritability is substantial but has less significance later on in life.<ref>{{cite journal|last1=Plomin|first1=R|last2=Pederson|first2=N.L.|last3=McClearn|first3=G.E.|last4=Nesselroade|first4=J.R.|last5=Bergeman|first5=C.S.|title=EAS temperaments during the last half of the life span: Twins reared apart and twins reared together.|journal=Psychology And Aging|date=1988|volume=3|issue=1|pages=43–50|doi=10.1037/0882-7974.3.1.43}}</ref> |
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{{anchor|Three-quarter}}'''Three-quarter siblings''' share one parent, while the unshared parents are [[first-degree relatives]] to each other, for example, if a man has children with two women who are sisters, or a woman has children with a man and his son. In the first case, the children are half-siblings as well as first cousins; in the second, the children are half-siblings as well as an avuncular pair. They are genetically closer than half-siblings but less genetically close than full-siblings,<ref>{{Cite journal|last1=Graffelman|first1=Jan|last2=Galván Femenía|first2=Iván|last3=de Cid|first3=Rafael|last4=Barceló Vidal|first4=Carles|date=2019|title=A Log-Ratio Biplot Approach for Exploring Genetic Relatedness Based on Identity by State|journal=Frontiers in Genetics|language=English|volume=10|page=341|doi=10.3389/fgene.2019.00341|pmid=31068965|pmc=6491861|issn=1664-8021|doi-access=free}}</ref> a degree of genetic relationship that is rare in humans and little-studied.<ref>{{Cite journal|last1=Galván-Femenía|first1=Iván|last2=Barceló-Vidal|first2=Carles|last3=Sumoy|first3=Lauro|last4=Moreno|first4=Victor|last5=de Cid|first5=Rafael|last6=Graffelman|first6=Jan|date=15 January 2021|title=A likelihood ratio approach for identifying three-quarter siblings in genetic databases|journal=Heredity|language=en|volume=126|issue=3|pages=537–547|doi=10.1038/s41437-020-00392-8|pmid=33452467|pmc=8027836|issn=1365-2540|doi-access=free}}</ref> One notable example of three-quarter siblings is the family of American aviator [[Charles Lindbergh]], who fathered children with two German sisters, Brigitte and Marietta Hesshaimer. |
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==={{anchor|half}} Half-sibling=== |
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[[File:Half Siblings.PNG|thumb|Half-siblings]] |
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''Half-siblings'' share only one parent instead of two as full siblings do and are on average 25% related,<ref name="Why half siblings share 25% of their DNA - Understanding">{{cite web|last=Dr. Starr|first=Barry|title=Why half siblings share 25% of their DNA - Understanding|url=http://genetics.thetech.org/ask-a-geneticist/why-siblings-share-around-fifty-percent-their-dna|work=The Tech|publisher=Stanford University|accessdate=19 June 2014}}</ref> in other words, the children that the parent and stepparent (the mother and stepfather, or the father and stepmother) or previous partner have together. Theoretically, there is a chance that they might not be related at all though this is very rare and is due to there being a smaller possibility of inheriting the same chromosomes from the shared parent.<ref name="Why half siblings share 25% of their DNA - Understanding"/> Half-siblings can have a wide variety of interpersonal relationships, from a bond as close as any full siblings, to total strangers. |
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[[Dibling]]s, a portmanteau of donor sibling, or donor-conceived sibling, or donor-sperm sibling, are biologically connected through [[Egg donation|donated eggs]] or [[Sperm donation|sperm]].<ref name="guardian-jolly">{{cite news|first1=Alice|last1=Jolly|access-date=2019-08-02|title=Donor siblings: do the ties of blood matter?|url=https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2017/jan/21/donor-siblings-do-ties-of-blood-matter|newspaper=The Guardian|date=21 January 2017|issn=0261-3077|via=www.theguardian.com}}</ref><ref>{{cite web|access-date=2019-08-02|title=What It's Like To... Find Out You Have 40 Brothers and Sisters|url=http://vanmag.com/city/what-its-like-to-find-out-you-have-40-brothers-and-sisters/|date=12 April 2019|website=Vancouver Magazine|archive-date=2019-08-02|archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20190802024856/http://vanmag.com/city/what-its-like-to-find-out-you-have-40-brothers-and-sisters/|url-status=dead}}</ref> Diblings are biologically siblings though not legally for the purposes of family rights and inheritance. The anonymity of donation is seen to add complication to the process of courtship. |
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There are specific terms for referring to half-siblings based on the sex of the shared parent: |
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*Those that share the same [[mother]] (but different fathers) are known as ''uterine'' siblings or ''maternal half-brothers/half-sisters''. |
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*Those that share the same [[father]] (but different mothers) are known as ''agnate'' siblings or ''paternal half-brothers/half-sisters''. In law, the term ''[[Consanguinity|consanguine]]'' is used in place of agnate. |
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===Non-blood relations{{anchor|step}}===<!--This section is linked from [[Barzan Ibrahim al-Tikriti]]--> |
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In law (and especially [[inheritance]] law), half-siblings were often accorded unequal treatment. Old English [[common law]] at one time incorporated inequalities into the laws of [[Intestacy|intestate succession]], with half-siblings taking only half as much property of their intestate siblings' estates as other siblings of full-blood. Unequal treatment of this type has been wholly abolished in [[England]]<ref>{{Cite web|title = Marriage: legitimacy and adoption|url = http://www.parliament.uk/about/living-heritage/transformingsociety/private-lives/relationships/overview/legitimacyadoption/|website = UK Parliament|accessdate = 2015-08-03}}</ref> but still exists in the U.S. State of Florida.<ref>Fla. Stat. s. 732.105.</ref> |
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Related through affinity: |
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* '''[[Stepsibling]]s''' (stepbrothers or stepsisters) are the children of one's [[Stepfamily|stepparent]] from a previous relationship. |
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* '''Adoptive siblings''' are raised by a person who is the [[adoption|adoptive]] parent of one and the adoptive or biological parent of the other. |
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* '''[[Sibling-in-law|Siblings-in-law]]''' are the siblings of one's spouse, the spouse of one's sibling, or the spouse of one's spouse's sibling.<ref>{{Cite web|title=brother-in-law|url=https://dictionary.cambridge.org/dictionary/english/brother-in-law|access-date=2021-03-10|website=dictionary.cambridge.org|language=en}}</ref><ref>{{Cite web|title=sister-in-law|url=https://dictionary.cambridge.org/dictionary/english/sister-in-law|access-date=2021-03-10|website=dictionary.cambridge.org|language=en}}</ref> The spouse of one's spouse's sibling may also be called a '''co-sibling'''.<ref>{{Cite web|title=co-brother|url=https://dictionary.cambridge.org/dictionary/english/co-brother|access-date=2021-03-10|website=dictionary.cambridge.org|language=en}}</ref><ref>{{Cite web|title=co-sister|url=https://dictionary.cambridge.org/dictionary/english/co-sister|access-date=2021-03-10|website=dictionary.cambridge.org|language=en}}</ref> |
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==={{anchor|3quarters}} 3/4 sibling=== |
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* '''{{vanchor|Foster}} siblings''' are children who are raised in the same [[foster home]]: foster children of one's parent(s), or the children or foster children of one's foster parent.<ref>{{Cite web|title=foster brother|url=https://dictionary.cambridge.org/us/dictionary/english-danish/foster-brother|access-date=2021-03-10|website=dictionary.cambridge.org|language=en-US}}</ref><ref>{{Cite web|title=Foster sister definition and meaning {{!}} Collins English Dictionary|url=https://www.collinsdictionary.com/us/dictionary/english/foster-sister|access-date=2021-03-10|website=www.collinsdictionary.com|language=en-US}}</ref><ref>{{Cite web|date=June 2019|title=Sibling Issues in Foster Care and Adoption|url=https://www.childwelfare.gov/pubPDFs/siblingissues.pdf|website=Child Welfare Information Gateway|publisher=U.S. Department of Health and Human Services}}</ref> |
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'''Three-quarter siblings''' have one common parent, while their unshared parents have a [[Coefficient of relationship#Human genealogy|mean consanguinity]] of 50%. This means the unshared parents are either siblings or parent and child (similar terminology is [[Horse breeding#Terminology|used in horse breeding]], where it occurs more frequently). Three-quarter siblings share more genes than half siblings, but fewer than full siblings. |
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* '''God siblings''' are the children of the [[godparent|godfather or godmother]] or the godchildren of the father or mother.{{citation needed|date=June 2020}} |
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* '''{{anchor|Milk}}Milk siblings''' are children who have been [[Breastfeeding|nursed]] by the same woman. This relationship exists in cultures with [[milk kinship]] and in [[Islamic law]].<ref>{{Cite web |last=Pelegrino |first=Elton N. |date=2022-01-20 |title=Milk Kinship: What do Islam have to say about this? |url=https://www.nnc.gov.ph//regional-offices/mindanao/region-ix-zamboanga-peninsula/6901-milk-kinship-what-do-islam-have-to-say-about-this |access-date=2023-06-22 |website=www.nnc.gov.ph |language=en-gb}}</ref> |
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* '''Cross-siblings''' are individuals who share one or more half-siblings; if one person has at least one maternal half-sibling and at least one paternal half-sibling, the maternal and paternal half-siblings are cross-siblings to each other.<ref>{{Cite web|url=https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2013/dec/28/shes-my-sister-from-another-mister-cross-siblings|title=She's my sister from another mister! {{!}} Janelle Butterfield|last=Butterfield|first=Janelle|date=2013-12-28|website=the Guardian|language=en|access-date=2018-10-29}}</ref>{{Dubious |Cross siblings?|date=June 2020}} |
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|style="font-size:94%; border: none; line-height: 1.4em; max-width: 100px;" |Bryan and Betty are full siblings while Cyrus is their half brother; their relation percentage of consanguinity is 50%. |
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|style="font-size:94%; border: none; line-height: 1.4em; max-width: 100px;" |Donna and David are full siblings.<br>Emily is their three-quarter sibling and Frank's half sister. |
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|style="font-size:94%; border: none; line-height: 1.4em; max-width: 100px;" |Erika and Efram are full siblings; to them, Abram, Aserna, and Agnia are their half-siblings, and Bein is their cross sibling.<br>Julia and Janine were born to one father and two full-sibling mothers, and are thus three-quarter siblings. Jaden is their cousin, while Jrake and Jakob are their half-cousins.<br>Jrake and Jaden were born to one mother and two half-sibling fathers, and are thus three-quarter siblings, however, their actual percentage of genetic relation is 31.25% instead of 37.5%. Jrake and Jakob are cross-cousins. |
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==Consanguinity and genetics== |
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[[Consanguinity]] is the measure of how closely people are related.<ref>{{Cite web|last=nivens|date=2015-01-09|title=Consanguinity|url=https://adoption.umn.edu/consanguinity|access-date=2021-03-02|website=Adoption Medicine Clinic – University of Minnesota|language=en|archive-date=2021-03-05|archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20210305135928/https://adoption.umn.edu/consanguinity|url-status=dead}}</ref> Genetic relatedness measures how many genes a person shares. As all humans share over 99% of the same genes, consanguinity only matters for the small fraction of genes which vary between different people.<ref name="Ask a Geneticist 2006">{{cite web|last=Shafer |first=Aaron |url=https://www.thetech.org/ask-a-geneticist/articles/2006/ask166/ |title=How are siblings 50% genetically identical while humans and mice are 85% identical? |website=[[The Tech Interactive]] |series=Ask a Geneticist |date=17 March 2006 |access-date=5 August 2024}}</ref> Inheritance of genes has a random element to it,<ref name="Ask a Geneticist 2006"/> and these two concepts are different.<ref name="Ask a Geneticist 2013">{{cite web |last=Starr |first=D. Barry |url=https://www.thetech.org/ask-a-geneticist/why-siblings-share-around-fifty-percent-their-dna/ |title=Why do half-siblings share 25% of their genes? |website=[[The Tech Interactive]] |series=Ask a Geneticist |date=5 September 2013 |access-date=5 August 2024}}</ref> Consanguinity decreases by half for every generation of reproductive separation through their most recent common ancestor. Siblings are 50% related by consanguinity as they are separated from each other by two generation (sibling to parent to sibling), and they share two parents as common ancestors (<math>\left ( \tfrac{1}{2} \right )^2 + \left ( \tfrac{1}{2} \right )^2</math>). |
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In this case the unshared parents are full siblings. Furthermore, the three-quarter siblings are also first cousins. An example of this is that of [[Charles Lindbergh]]'s children with his mistress Brigitte Hesshaimer, and his children with her sister, Marietta Hesshaimer. A more recent example relates to [[Jermaine Jackson|Jermaine]] and [[Randy Jackson (The Jacksons)|Randy Jackson]], of the [[Jackson 5]], who have both fathered children with Alejandra Genevieve Oaziaza.<ref>[[Jermaine Jackson#Personal life]]</ref> Another example is that of [[Sultan bin Zayed bin Sultan Al Nahyan]] and [[Khalifa bin Zayed Al Nahyan]] who share [[Zayed bin Sultan Al Nahyan]] as their father, but their mothers are sisters. |
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A fraternal twin is a sibling and, therefore, is related by 50% consanguinity.<ref>{{Cite web|title=Coefficient of relationship – ISOGG Wiki|url=https://isogg.org/wiki/Coefficient_of_relationship|access-date=2021-03-02|website=isogg.org}}</ref> [[Fraternal twins]] are no more genetically similar than regular siblings. As [[identical twin]]s come from the same zygote, their most recent common ancestor is each other. They’re genetically identical and 100% consanguineous as they’re separated by zero generations (<math>\left ( \tfrac{1}{2} \right )^0</math>).<ref name="Ask a Geneticist 2006"/> [[Twin study|Twin studies]] have been conducted by scientists to examine the roles that [[Nature versus nurture|genetics and environment]] play in the development of various traits. Such studies examine how often identical twins possess the same behavioral trait and compare it to how often fraternal twins possess the same trait.{{citation needed|date=June 2020}} In other studies twins are raised in separate families, and studies compare the passing on of a behavioral trait by the family environment and the possession of a common trait between identical twins. This kind of study has revealed that for personality traits which are known to be [[Heritability|heritable]], genetics play a substantial role throughout life and an even larger role during early years.<ref>{{cite journal|last1=Plomin|first1=R|last2=Pederson|first2=N.L.|last3=McClearn|first3=G.E.|last4=Nesselroade|first4=J.R.|last5=Bergeman|first5=C.S.|title=EAS temperaments during the last half of the life span: Twins reared apart and twins reared together|journal=Psychology and Aging|date=1988|volume=3|issue=1|pages=43–50|doi=10.1037/0882-7974.3.1.43|pmid=3268242}}</ref> |
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In the case where the unshared parents are [[identical twins]], the children share as much genetic material as full siblings do. |
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Half-siblings are 25% related by consanguinity as they share one parent and separated from each other by two generations (<math>\left ( \tfrac{1}{2} \right )^2</math>). |
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See also [[Deceased Wife's Sister's Marriage Act 1907]]. |
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A person may share more than the standard consanguinity with their sibling if their parents are related (the [[coefficient of inbreeding]] is greater than zero).{{citation needed|date=June 2020}} {{anchor|3quarters}}Interestingly, half-siblings can be related by as "three-quarters siblings" (related by 3/8) if their unshared parents have a consanguinity of 50%. This means the unshared parents are either siblings, making the half-siblings [[cousin]]s, or parent and child, making them half- [[aunt]]-[[uncle]] and [[niece]]-[[nephew]].<ref>{{cite web |last=Benitez |first=Cecil |url=https://www.thetech.org/ask-a-geneticist/articles/2011/ask430/ |title=How related are three-fourths siblings? |date=29 September 2011 |website=[[The Tech Interactive]] |series=Ask a Geneticist |access-date=5 August 2024}}</ref> |
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In this case a woman has children with two men who are father and son (or the genders could be reversed). (This is not incest, as the woman is unrelated to the father and son.) These children will be three-quarter siblings. |
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==={{anchor|step}} Stepsibling===<!--This section is linked from [[Barzan Ibrahim al-Tikriti]]--> |
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In practice, full siblings do not share exactly 50% of their DNA, as [[chromosomal crossover]] only occurs a limited number of times and, therefore, large chunks of a chromosome are shared or not shared at one time. In fact, the mean DNA fraction shared is 50.28% with a standard deviation of 3.68%,<ref>{{cite journal | pmc=4037293 | year=2013 | last1=Vinkhuyzen | first1=A. A. | last2=Wray | first2=N. R. | last3=Yang | first3=J. | last4=Goddard | first4=M. E. | last5=Visscher | first5=P. M. | title=Estimation and Partitioning of Heritability in Human Populations using Whole Genome Analysis Methods | journal=Annual Review of Genetics | volume=47 | pages=75–95 | doi=10.1146/annurev-genet-111212-133258 | pmid=23988118 }}</ref> meaning approximately 1/4 of sibling pairs share more than 52.76% of their DNA, while 1/4 share less than 47.8%.<ref>Calculated based on the [[Standard deviation#Rules for normally distributed data|normal distribution]]</ref> |
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"Stepsiblings" (stepbrothers or stepsisters) are the children of one's [[Stepfamily|stepparent]] from a previous relationship. They are unrelated by blood, but may be legally related. |
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There is a very small chance that two half-siblings might not share any genes if they didn't inherit any of the same chromosomes from their shared parent. This is possible for full-siblings as well, though even more unlikely. But because of how [[homologous chromosomes]] swap genes (due to [[chromosomal crossover]] during [[meiosis]]) during the development of an egg or sperm cell, however, the odds of this ever actually occurring are practically non-existent.<ref name="Ask a Geneticist 2013"/> |
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===Foster siblings=== |
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"Foster siblings" are children who are raised in the same [[foster home]], foster children of the person's parents, or foster parents' biological children. |
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===Adoptive siblings=== |
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Two "adoptive siblings" are raised a person who is the [[adoption|adoptive]] parent of one and the adoptive or biological parent of the other. Adoptive siblings are legally related but need not be blood-related or biologically related. |
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====Adoptive study==== |
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Research was done to see what factors affected [[IQ]], specifically family environment and genetics. Segal (1997) was interested in siblings of no biological relations. He found that intellect and behaviour is associated with rearing situations. Rearing situation refers to being raised apart, in opposite environments; so that could be high vs. low socioeconomic status. Unrelated siblings (two adoptees, or an adoptee and biological child) that are reared together from infancy showed results that resemble those of [[dizygotic twins]]. This could be because, despite genetic differences and different personalities and behaviours, they are still raised in the same environment. The study suggests that IQ and rearing status did, in fact, have a significant relationship. That is to say that biological siblings had higher mean scores as compared to unrelated siblings. Age was also a factor that affected the siblings resemblance in IQ. At about age 3, they become dissimilar as they begin to follow their genetic growth curve. Their family environment having less and less of an effect as they grow. However, it does affect spatial and perceptual factors.<ref>{{cite journal|last1=Segal|first1=N.L.|title=Same-age unrelated siblings: A unique test of within-family environmental influences on IQ similarity|journal=Journal of Educational Psychology|date=1997|volume=89|issue=2|pages=381–390|doi=10.1037/0022-0663.89.2.381}}</ref> |
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===Sibling cousins=== |
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"Sibling cousins" are those who have the same mother with their fathers being brothers or cousins or who share the same father with their mothers being sisters or cousins. This is a broader category than, but inclusive of, the 3/4 sibling above. |
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===Sibling-in-law=== |
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One's sibling-in-law is the sibling of one's spouse or the spouse of one's sibling. |
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===Godsibling=== |
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Godsiblings (godbrothers or godsisters) are the children of one's [[godparent]]. If the godparents are not chosen within the family, then they are unrelated by blood. |
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===Milk sibling=== |
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In cultures with [[milk kinship]], a milk sibling is a person who is not one's biological sibling but was [[Breastfeeding|nursed]] by the same woman as oneself. The concept exists in [[Islamic law]] and [[Jewish law]]. |
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===Blood sibling=== |
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Not to be confused with a [[consanguineous]] sibling, a [[blood brother]] or blood sister is a person to whom one has sworn loyalty through a ritual blood oath. The custom is rare in Western culture. |
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==Birth order== |
==Birth order== |
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[[File:P S Krøyer 1897 - Døtrene Benzon.jpg|thumb|upright|''The Benzon Daughters'' by [[Peder Severin Krøyer]]]] |
[[File:P S Krøyer 1897 - Døtrene Benzon.jpg|thumb|upright|''The Benzon Daughters'' by [[Peder Severin Krøyer]]]] |
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[[File:Pedro II of Brazil and his sisters 1839.JPG|thumb|upright|Emperor [[Pedro II of Brazil]] with his sisters Princesses [[Princess Francisca of Brazil|Francisca]] and [[Princess Januária of Brazil|Januária]], 1839]] |
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Birth order is a person's rank by age among his or her siblings. Typically, researchers classify siblings as "eldest", "middle child", and "youngest" or simply distinguish between " |
Birth order is a person's rank by age among his or her siblings. Typically, researchers classify siblings as "eldest", "middle child", and "youngest" or simply distinguish between "first-born" and "later-born" children. |
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Birth order is commonly believed in [[pop psychology]] and popular culture to have a profound and lasting effect on psychological development and [[Personality psychology|personality]]. For example, firstborns are seen as conservative and high |
Birth order is commonly believed in [[pop psychology]] and popular culture to have a profound and lasting effect on psychological development and [[Personality psychology|personality]]. For example, firstborns are seen as conservative and high-achieving, middle children as natural mediators, and youngest children as charming and outgoing. Despite its lasting presence in the public domain, studies have failed to consistently produce clear, valid, compelling findings; therefore, it has earned the title of a [[Pseudoscience|pseudo-psychology]] amongst the scientific psychological community.<ref name="Psychology Around Us">{{cite book|last1=Comer|first1=Ronald|last2=Gould|first2=Elizabeth|last3=Ogden|first3=Nancy|last4=Boyes|first4=Michael|title=Psychology Around Us|url=https://archive.org/details/psychologyaround0000come|url-access=registration|date=February 2012|publisher=Wiley}}</ref> |
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===History=== |
===History=== |
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The theorizing and study of birth order can be traced back to [[Francis Galton]]'s (1822–1911) theory of birth order and [[wikt:eminence|eminence]] and [[Alfred Adler]]'s (1870–1937) theory of birth order and personality characteristics. |
The theorizing and study of birth order can be traced back to [[Francis Galton]]'s (1822–1911) theory of birth order and [[wikt:eminence|eminence]] and [[Alfred Adler]]'s (1870–1937) theory of birth order and personality characteristics.{{citation needed|date=June 2020}} |
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==== Galton ==== |
==== Galton ==== |
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In his book ''English Men of Science: Their Nature and Nurture'' (1874), Galton noted that prominent composers and scientists are over-represented as first-borns.<ref name="intelltheory.com">{{cite web|last1=Esping|first1=Amber|title=Does Birth Order Affect Intelligence?|url=http://www.intelltheory.com/birthOrder.shtml|website=Human Intelligence}}</ref> He theorized three main reasons as to why first-borns are generally more eminent: |
In his book ''English Men of Science: Their Nature and Nurture'' (1874), Galton noted that prominent composers and scientists are over-represented as first-borns.<ref name="intelltheory.com">{{cite web|last1=Esping|first1=Amber|title=Does Birth Order Affect Intelligence?|url=http://www.intelltheory.com/birthOrder.shtml|website=Human Intelligence|access-date=2014-11-15|archive-date=2020-02-14|archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20200214171030/http://www.intelltheory.com/birthOrder.shtml|url-status=dead}}</ref> He theorized three main reasons as to why first-borns are generally more eminent: |
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# [[Primogeniture]] laws: first-borns have access to their parents' financial resources to continue their education.<ref name="intelltheory.com"/> |
# [[Primogeniture]] laws: first-borns have access to their parents' financial resources to continue their education.<ref name="intelltheory.com"/> |
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# First-borns are given more responsibility than their younger siblings and are treated more as companions by their parents.<ref name="intelltheory.com"/> |
# First-borns are given more responsibility than their younger siblings and are treated more as companions by their parents.<ref name="intelltheory.com"/> |
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=== Contemporary findings === |
=== Contemporary findings === |
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Today, the flaws and inconsistencies in birth order research eliminate its validity. It is very difficult to control solely for factors related to birth order, and therefore most studies produce ambiguous results.<ref name="ReferenceA"/> Embedded into theories of birth order is a debate of nature versus nurture. It has been disproved that there is something innate in the position one is born into, and therefore creating a preset role. Birth order has no genetic basis.<ref>{{cite journal|last1=Wichman|first1=A.L.|last2=Rodgers|first2=J.L.|last3=MacCallum|first3=R.C.|title=A Multilevel Approach to the Relationship Between Birth Order and Intelligence|journal=Society for Personality and Social Psychology Inc|date=2006|volume=32|issue=1|pages=117–127|doi=10.1177/0146167205279581}}</ref> |
Today, the flaws and inconsistencies in birth order research eliminate its validity. It is very difficult to control solely for factors related to birth order, and therefore most studies produce ambiguous results.<ref name="ReferenceA"/> Embedded into theories of birth order is a debate of nature versus nurture. It has been disproved that there is something innate in the position one is born into, and therefore creating a preset role. Birth order has no genetic basis.<ref>{{cite journal|last1=Wichman|first1=A.L.|last2=Rodgers|first2=J.L.|last3=MacCallum|first3=R.C.|title=A Multilevel Approach to the Relationship Between Birth Order and Intelligence|journal=Society for Personality and Social Psychology Inc|date=2006|volume=32|issue=1|pages=117–127|doi=10.1177/0146167205279581|pmid=16317193|s2cid=5791756}}</ref> |
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The social interaction that occurs as a result of birth order however is the most notable. Older siblings often become role models of behaviour, and younger siblings become learners and supervisees. Older siblings are at a developmental advantage both cognitively and socially. The role of birth order also depends greatly and varies greatly on family context. Family size, sibling identification, age |
The social interaction that occurs as a result of birth order however is the most notable. Older siblings often become role models of behaviour, and younger siblings become learners and supervisees. Older siblings are at a developmental advantage both cognitively and socially. The role of birth order also depends greatly and varies greatly on family context. Family size, sibling identification, age gap, modeling, parenting techniques, gender, class, race, and temperament are all confounding variables that can influence behaviour and therefore perceived behaviour of specific birth categories.<ref>{{cite journal|last1=Eckstein|first1=D.|last2=Kaufman|first2=J.A.|title=The Role of Birth Order in Personality: An Enduring Intellectual Legacy of Alfred Adler|journal=The Journal of Individual Psychology|date=2012|volume=68|issue=1|pages=60–61}}</ref> The research on birth order does have stronger correlations, however, in areas such as intelligence and physical features, but are likely caused by other factors other than the actual position of birth. Some research has found that firstborn children have slightly higher [[IQ]]s on average than later born children.<ref>{{cite news |author=Carey, Benedict |url=http://www.iht.com/articles/2007/06/21/africa/siblings.php |title=Family dynamics, not biology, behind higher IQ |newspaper=International Herald Tribune |date=June 21, 2007 |access-date=July 15, 2007}}</ref> However, other research finds no such effect.<ref>Rodgers, J.L., Cleveland, H.H., van den Oord, E. and Rowe, D. (2000). Resolving the Debate Over Birth Order, Family Size and Intelligence. ''American Psychologist'', Vol. 55.</ref> It has been found that first-borns score three points higher compared to second borns and that children born earlier in a family are on average, taller and weigh more than those born later.<ref name="Psychology Around Us"/> However, it is impossible to generalize birth order characteristics and apply them universally to all individuals in that subgroup. |
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==== Contemporary explanations for IQ findings ==== |
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# Parental resources are finite, first-born children get full and primary access to these resources.<ref name="intelltheory.com"/> |
# Parental resources are finite, first-born children get full and primary access to these resources.<ref name="intelltheory.com"/> |
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# As the number of a children in a family goes up, the more resources must be shared.<ref name="intelltheory.com"/> |
# As the number of a children in a family goes up, the more resources must be shared.<ref name="intelltheory.com"/> |
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# These parental resources have an important impact on a |
# These parental resources have an important impact on a child's educational success.<ref name="intelltheory.com"/> |
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===== Confluence model ===== |
===== Confluence model ===== |
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[[Robert Zajonc]] proposed that the intellectual environment within a family is ever-changing due to three factors, and therefore more permissive of first-born children's intellectual advancement:<ref name="intelltheory.com"/> |
[[Robert Zajonc]] proposed that the intellectual environment within a family is ever-changing due to three factors, and therefore more permissive of first-born children's intellectual advancement:<ref name="intelltheory.com"/> |
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# Firstborns do not need to share parental attention and have their parents' complete absorption. More siblings in the family limit the attention devoted to each of them.<ref name="intelltheory.com"/> |
# Firstborns do not need to share parental attention and have their parents' complete absorption. More siblings in the family limit the attention devoted to each of them.<ref name="intelltheory.com"/> |
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# Firstborns are exposed to more adult language. Later-borns are exposed the less-mature speech of their older siblings.<ref name="intelltheory.com"/> |
# Firstborns are exposed to more adult language. Later-borns are exposed to the less-mature speech of their older siblings.<ref name="intelltheory.com"/> |
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# Firstborns and older siblings must answer questions and explain things to younger siblings, acting as tutors. This advances their cognitive processing of information and language skills.<ref name="intelltheory.com"/> |
# Firstborns and older siblings must answer questions and explain things to younger siblings, acting as tutors. This advances their cognitive processing of information and language skills.<ref name="intelltheory.com"/> |
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In 1996, interest in the science behind birth order was re-sparked when [[Frank Sulloway]]’s book ''Born To Rebel'' was published. In this book, Sulloway argues that firstborns are more conscientious, more socially dominant, less agreeable, and less open to new ideas compared to later-borns. While being seemingly empirical and academic, as many studies are cited throughout the book, it is still often criticized as a biased and incomplete account of the whole picture of siblings and birth order. Because it is a novel, the research and theories proposed throughout were not criticized and peer-reviewed by other academics before its release.<ref>{{cite journal|last1=Johnson|first1=Gary. R.|title=Science, Sulloway, and Birth Order: An Ordeal and an Assessment|journal=Politics and |
In 1996, interest in the science behind birth order was re-sparked when [[Frank Sulloway]]’s book ''Born To Rebel'' was published. In this book, Sulloway argues that firstborns are more conscientious, more socially dominant, less agreeable, and less open to new ideas compared to later-borns. While being seemingly empirical and academic, as many studies are cited throughout the book, it is still often criticized as a biased and incomplete account of the whole picture of siblings and birth order. Because it is a novel, the research and theories proposed throughout were not criticized and peer-reviewed by other academics before its release.<ref>{{cite journal|last1=Johnson|first1=Gary. R.|title=Science, Sulloway, and Birth Order: An Ordeal and an Assessment|journal=Politics and the Life Sciences|date=2000|volume=19|issue=2|pages=211–245|doi=10.1017/S0730938400014842|s2cid=233320874}}</ref> |
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[[Literature review]]s that have examined many studies and attempted to control for confounding variables tend to find minimal effects for birth order on personality.<ref>Ernst, C. & Angst, J. (1983). ''Birth order: Its influence on personality.'' Springer.</ref><ref>{{cite journal | last1 = Jefferson | first1 = T. | last2 = Herbst | first2 = J.H. | last3 = McCrae | first3 = R.R. | year = 1998 | title = Associations between birth order and personality traits: Evidence from self-reports and observer ratings |
[[Literature review]]s that have examined many studies and attempted to control for confounding variables tend to find minimal effects for birth order on personality.<ref>Ernst, C. & Angst, J. (1983). ''Birth order: Its influence on personality.'' Springer.</ref><ref>{{cite journal | last1 = Jefferson | first1 = T. | last2 = Herbst | first2 = J.H. | last3 = McCrae | first3 = R.R. | year = 1998 | title = Associations between birth order and personality traits: Evidence from self-reports and observer ratings | journal = Journal of Research in Personality | volume = 32 | issue = 4| pages = 498–509 | doi=10.1006/jrpe.1998.2233| url = https://zenodo.org/record/1229908 }}</ref> |
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In her review of the scientific literature, [[Judith Rich Harris]] suggests that birth order effects may exist within the context of the family of origin, but that they are not enduring aspects of personality.<ref>Harris, J.R. (1998). ''[[The Nurture Assumption]]: Why children turn out the way they do.'' New York: Free Press.</ref> |
In her review of the scientific literature, [[Judith Rich Harris]] suggests that birth order effects may exist within the context of the family of origin, but that they are not enduring aspects of personality.<ref>Harris, J.R. (1998). ''[[The Nurture Assumption]]: Why children turn out the way they do.'' New York: Free Press.</ref> |
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In practice, systematic birth order research is a challenge because it is difficult to control for all of the variables that are statistically related to birth order. For example, large families are generally lower in socioeconomic status than small families, so third-born children are more likely than first-born children to come from poorer families. Spacing of children, parenting style, and gender are additional variables to consider. |
In practice, systematic birth order research is a challenge because it is difficult to control for all of the variables that are statistically related to birth order. For example, large families are generally lower in socioeconomic status than small families, so third-born children are more likely than first-born children to come from poorer families. Spacing of children, parenting style, and gender are additional variables to consider. |
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==Regressive behavior at |
==Regressive behavior at birth== |
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The arrival of a new baby is especially stressful for firstborns and for siblings between 3 and 5 years old. Regressive behavior and aggressive behavior, such as handling the baby roughly, can also occur. All of these symptoms are considered to be typical and developmentally appropriate for children between the ages of 3–5.{{Citation needed|date=June 2008}} While some can be prevented, the remainder can be improved within a few months. Regressive behavior may include demand for a bottle, thumb sucking, requests to wear diapers (even if toilet-trained), or requests to carry a [[security blanket]]. |
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[[File:Trio Of Boys (54780902).jpeg|thumb|A [[newborn]] and his brothers]] |
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[[File:Four Sisters MET DP72050.jpg|thumb|Four Sisters ([[Frank Eugene]], about 1900)]] |
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Regressive behaviors are the child's way of demanding the parents' love and attention. |
Regressive behaviors are the child's way of demanding the parents' love and attention. |
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The arrival of a new baby is especially stressful for firstborns and for siblings between 3 and 5 years old. In such situations, regressive behavior may be accompanied by aggressive behavior, such as handling the baby roughly. All of these symptoms are considered to be typical and developmentally appropriate for children between the ages of 3 and 5. While some can be prevented, the remainder can be improved within a few months. Regressive behavior may include demand for a bottle, thumb sucking, requests to wear diapers (even if toilet-trained), or requests to carry a [[security blanket]]. |
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The [[American Academy of Pediatrics]] suggests{{Citation needed|date=July 2008}} that instead of protesting or telling children to act their age, parents should simply grant their requests without becoming upset. The affected children will soon return to their normal routine when they realize that they now have just as important a place in the family as the new sibling. Most of the behaviors can be improved within a few months. |
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The [[American Academy of Pediatrics]] suggests that instead of protesting or telling children to act their age, parents should simply grant their requests without becoming upset. The affected children will soon return to their normal routine when they realize that they now have just as important a place in the family as the new sibling. Most of the behaviors can be improved within a few months. |
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The [[University of Michigan Health System]] advises{{Citation needed|date=July 2008}} that most occurrences of regressive behavior are mild and to be expected; however, it recommends parents to contact a pediatrician or child psychologist if the older child tries to hurt the baby, if regressive behavior does not improve within 2 or 3 months, or if the parents have other questions or concerns. |
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The [[University of Michigan Health System]] advises that most occurrences of regressive behavior are mild and to be expected; however, it recommends parents to contact a pediatrician or child psychologist if the older child tries to hurt the baby, if regressive behavior does not improve within 2 or 3 months, or if the parents have other questions or concerns. |
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==Sibling rivalry== |
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[[File:Sir Joshua Reynolds 004.jpg|thumb|upright|''Portrait of Lady Cockburn and her Three Eldest Sons'', by [[Joshua Reynolds]]]] |
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==Rivalry== |
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"Sibling rivalry" is a type of competition or animosity among brothers and sisters. It appears to be particularly intense when children are very close in age or of the same gender.<ref>[http://www.sylviarimm.com/article13.html The Effects of Sibling Competition] Syliva B. Rimm, Educational Assessment Service, 2002.</ref> Sibling rivalry can involve [[aggression]]; however, it is not the same as [[sibling abuse]] where one child victimizes another. |
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[[File:Sir Joshua Reynolds - Lady Cockburn and Her Three Eldest Sons (1773-1775).jpg|thumb|''[[Portrait of Lady Cockburn and her Three Eldest Sons]]'' (1773–1775) by [[Joshua Reynolds]]]] |
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"Sibling rivalry" is a type of competition or animosity among brothers and sisters. It appears to be particularly intense when children are very close in age or of the same gender.<ref>[http://www.sylviarimm.com/article13.html The Effects of Sibling Competition] {{webarchive|url=https://web.archive.org/web/20070701155521/http://www.sylviarimm.com/article13.html |date=2007-07-01 }} Syliva B. Rimm, Educational Assessment Service, 2002.</ref> Sibling rivalry can involve [[aggression]]; however, it is not the same as [[sibling abuse]] where one child victimizes another. |
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Sibling rivalry usually starts right after, or before, the arrival of the second child. While siblings will still love each other, it is not uncommon for them to bicker and be malicious to each other.<ref name= "newbaby">[http://www.med.umich.edu/1libr/yourchild/newbaby.htm New Baby Sibling] University of Michigan Health System, June 2006</ref> Children are sensitive from the age of 1 year to differences in parental treatment and by 3 years they have a sophisticated grasp of family rules and can evaluate themselves in relation to their siblings.<ref name="psychtoday"/> Sibling rivalry often continues throughout childhood and can be very frustrating and stressful to parents.<ref name="michigan">[http://www.med.umich.edu/1libr/yourchild/sibriv.htm Sibling Rivalry] University of Michigan Health System, October 2006</ref> One study found that the age group 10–15 reported the highest level of competition between siblings.<ref name="mcnerney">[http://jrscience.wcp.muohio.edu/humannature01/FinalArticles/SiblingRivalryinDegreeand.html Sibling Rivalry in Degree and Dimensions Across the Lifespan] Annie McNerney and Joy Usner, 30 April 2001.</ref> Sibling rivalry can continue into adulthood and sibling relationships can change dramatically over the years. Approximately one-third of adults describe their relationship with siblings as rivalrous or distant. However, rivalry often lessens over time and at least 80% of siblings over age 60 enjoy close ties.<ref name="psychtoday"/> |
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Sibling rivalry usually starts right after, or before, the arrival of the second child. While siblings will still love each other, it is not uncommon for them to bicker and be malicious to each other.<ref name= "newbaby">[http://www.med.umich.edu/1libr/yourchild/newbaby.htm New Baby Sibling] {{Webarchive|url=https://web.archive.org/web/20200807085406/http://www.med.umich.edu/1libr/yourchild/newbaby.htm |date=2020-08-07 }} University of Michigan Health System, June 2006</ref> Children are sensitive from the age of 1 year to differences in parental treatment and by 3 years they have a sophisticated grasp of family rules and can evaluate themselves in relation to their siblings.<ref name="psychtoday"/> Sibling rivalry often continues throughout childhood and can be very frustrating and stressful to parents.<ref name="michigan">[http://www.med.umich.edu/1libr/yourchild/sibriv.htm Sibling Rivalry] {{Webarchive|url=https://web.archive.org/web/20170630010831/http://www.med.umich.edu/1libr/yourchild/sibriv.htm |date=2017-06-30 }} University of Michigan Health System, October 2006</ref> One study found that the age group 10–15 reported the highest level of competition between siblings.<ref name="mcnerney">[http://jrscience.wcp.muohio.edu/humannature01/FinalArticles/SiblingRivalryinDegreeand.html Sibling Rivalry in Degree and Dimensions Across the Lifespan] {{Webarchive|url=https://web.archive.org/web/20171015222353/http://jrscience.wcp.muohio.edu/humannature01/FinalArticles/SiblingRivalryinDegreeand.html |date=2017-10-15 }} Annie McNerney and Joy Usner, 30 April 2001.</ref> Sibling rivalry can continue into adulthood and sibling relationships can change dramatically over the years. Approximately one-third of adults describe their relationship with siblings as rivalrous or distant. However, rivalry often lessens over time and at least 80% of siblings over age 60 enjoy close ties.<ref name="psychtoday"/> |
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Each child in a family competes to define who they are as persons and want to show that they are separate from their siblings. Sibling rivalry increases when children feel they are getting unequal amounts of their parents' attention, where there is stress in the parents' and children's lives, and where fighting is accepted by the family as a way to resolve conflicts.<ref name="michigan"/> [[Sigmund Freud]] saw the sibling relationship as an extension of the [[Oedipus complex]], where brothers were in competition for their mother's attention and sisters for their father's.<ref>[http://www.freud-museum.at/e/inhalt/wissenJulietMitchell2003.html Freud Lecture: Juliet Mitchell, 2003]</ref> [[Evolutionary psychologist]]s explain sibling rivalry in terms of [[parental investment]] and [[kin selection]]: a parent is inclined to spread resources equally among all children in the family, but a child wants most of the resources for him or herself.<ref name="mcnerney"/> |
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Each child in a family competes to define who they are as persons and want to show that they are separate from their siblings. Sibling rivalry increases when children feel they are getting unequal amounts of their parents' attention, where there is stress in the parents' and children's lives, and where fighting is accepted by the family as a way to resolve conflicts.<ref name="michigan"/> [[Sigmund Freud]] saw the sibling relationship as an extension of the [[Oedipus complex]], where brothers were in competition for their mother's attention and sisters for their father's.<ref>{{Cite web |url=http://www.freud-museum.at/e/inhalt/wissenJulietMitchell2003.html |title=Freud Lecture: Juliet Mitchell, 2003 |access-date=2007-07-15 |archive-date=2012-02-04 |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20120204101639/http://www.freud-museum.at/e/inhalt/wissenJulietMitchell2003.html |url-status=dead }}</ref> [[Evolutionary psychologist]]s explain sibling rivalry in terms of [[parental investment]] and [[kin selection]]: a parent is inclined to spread resources equally among all children in the family, but a child wants most of the resources for him or herself.<ref name="mcnerney"/> |
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==Sibling relationships== |
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==Relationships== |
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===Sibling jealousy=== |
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[[Jealousy]] is not a single emotion. The basic emotions expressed in jealous interactions are [[fear]], [[anger]], relief, [[sadness]], and anxiety.<ref name="ReferenceB">{{cite journal|last1=Volling|first1=B. L.|last2=McElwain|first2=N.L.|last3=Miller|first3=A.L.|title=Emotion Regulation in Context: The Jealousy Complex between Young Siblings and its Relations with Child and Family Characteristics|journal=Child Development|date=2002|volume=73|issue=2|pages=581–600|doi= 10.1111/1467-8624.00425 }}</ref> Jealousy occurs in a social triangle of relationships which do not require a third person. The social triangle involves the relationships between the jealous individual and the parent, the relationship between the parent and the rival, and the relationship between jealous individual and the rival.<ref name="ReferenceB"/> |
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{{See also|Attachment theory#Attachment patterns{{!}}Attachment theory § Attachment patterns}} |
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First-borns attachment to their parents is directly related to their jealous behaviour. In a study by Volling, four classes of children were identified based on their different responses of jealousy to new infant siblings and parent interactions. |
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[[Jealousy]] is not a single emotion. The basic emotions expressed in jealous interactions are [[fear]], [[anger]], relief, [[sadness]], and anxiety.<ref name="ReferenceB">{{cite journal|last1=Volling|first1=B. L.|last2=McElwain|first2=N.L.|last3=Miller|first3=A.L.|title=Emotion Regulation in Context: The Jealousy Complex between Young Siblings and its Relations with Child and Family Characteristics|journal=Child Development|date=2002|volume=73|issue=2|pages=581–600|doi= 10.1111/1467-8624.00425 |pmid=11949910}}</ref> Jealousy occurs in a social triangle of relationships which do not require a third person. The social triangle involves the relationships between the jealous individual and the parent, the relationship between the parent and the rival, and the relationship between jealous individual and the rival.<ref name="ReferenceB"/> |
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====Newborn==== |
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First-borns' attachment to their parents is directly related to their jealous behaviour. In a study by Volling, four classes of children were identified based on their different responses of jealousy to new infant siblings and parent interactions. |
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'''Regulated Exploration Children''': 60% of children fall into this category.<ref name="ReferenceB"/> These children closely watch their parents interact with their newborn sibling, approach them positively and sometimes join the interaction.<ref name="ReferenceB"/> They show fewer behaviour problems in the months following the new birth and do not display problematic behaviours during the parent-infant interaction.<ref name="ReferenceB"/> These children are considered [[:wikt:secure|secure]] as they act how a child would be expected to act in a familiar home setting with their parents present as secure bases to explore the environment.<ref name="ReferenceB"/> |
'''Regulated Exploration Children''': 60% of children fall into this category.<ref name="ReferenceB"/> These children closely watch their parents interact with their newborn sibling, approach them positively and sometimes join the interaction.<ref name="ReferenceB"/> They show fewer behaviour problems in the months following the new birth and do not display problematic behaviours during the parent-infant interaction.<ref name="ReferenceB"/> These children are considered [[:wikt:secure|secure]] as they act how a child would be expected to act in a familiar home setting with their parents present as secure bases to explore the environment.<ref name="ReferenceB"/> |
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'''Approach-Avoidant Children''': 30% of children fall into this category.<ref name="ReferenceB"/> These children observe parent-infant interaction closely and are less likely to approach the infant and the parent. They are anxious to explore the new environment as they tend to seek little comfort from their parents.<ref name="ReferenceB"/> |
'''Approach-Avoidant Children''': 30% of children fall into this category.<ref name="ReferenceB"/> These children observe parent-infant interaction closely and are less likely to approach the infant and the parent. They are anxious to explore the new environment as they tend to seek little comfort from their parents.<ref name="ReferenceB"/> |
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'''Disruptive Children''': 2.7% of children fall into this category.<ref name="ReferenceB"/> These children are emotionally reactive and aggressive. They have difficulty regulating their negative emotions and may be likely to externalize it as negative behaviour around the newborn.<ref name="ReferenceB"/> |
'''Disruptive Children''': 2.7% of children fall into this category.<ref name="ReferenceB"/> These children are emotionally reactive and aggressive. They have difficulty regulating their negative emotions and may be likely to externalize it as negative behaviour around the newborn.<ref name="ReferenceB"/> |
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====Parental effect |
====Parental effect==== |
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Children are more jealous of the interactions between newborns and their mothers than they are with newborns and their fathers.<ref name="ReferenceB"/> This is logical as up until the birth of the infant, the first-born child had the mother as |
Children are more jealous of the interactions between newborns and their mothers than they are with newborns and their fathers.<ref name="ReferenceB"/> This is logical as up until the birth of the infant, the first-born child had the mother as their primary care-giver all to themselves. Some research has suggested that children display less jealous reactions over father-newborn interactions because fathers tend to punish negative [[emotion]] and are less tolerant than mothers of clinginess and visible distress, although this is hard to generalize.<ref name="ReferenceB"/> |
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Children that have parents with a better marital relationship are better at regulating their jealous emotions.<ref name="ReferenceB"/> Children are more likely to express jealousy when their parents are directing their attention to the sibling as opposed to when the parents are solely interacting with them.<ref name="ReferenceB"/> Parents who are involved in good marital communication help their children cope adaptively with jealousy. They do this by modelling problem-solving and conflict resolution for their children. Children are also less likely to have jealous feelings when they live in a home in which everyone in the family shares and expresses love and happiness.<ref name="ReferenceB"/> |
Children that have parents with a better marital relationship are better at regulating their jealous emotions.<ref name="ReferenceB"/> Children are more likely to express jealousy when their parents are directing their attention to the sibling as opposed to when the parents are solely interacting with them.<ref name="ReferenceB"/> Parents who are involved in good marital communication help their children cope adaptively with jealousy. They do this by modelling problem-solving and conflict resolution for their children. Children are also less likely to have jealous feelings when they live in a home in which everyone in the family shares and expresses love and happiness.<ref name="ReferenceB"/> |
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====Implicit theories |
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Implicit theories about relationships are associated with the ways children think of strategies to deal with a new situation. |
Implicit theories about relationships are associated with the ways children think of strategies to deal with a new situation. |
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Children can fall into two categories of implicit theorizing. They may be malleable theorists and believe that they can affect change on situations and people. Alternatively, they may be fixed theorists, believing situations and people are not changeable.<ref name="ReferenceC">{{cite journal|last1=Thompson|first1=J.A.|last2=Halberstadt|first2=A.G.|title=Childrens Accounts of Sibling Jealousy and Their Implicit Theories about Relationships|journal=Social Development|date=2008|volume=17|issue=3|doi=10.1111/J.1467-9507.2007. |
Children can fall into two categories of implicit theorizing. They may be malleable theorists and believe that they can affect change on situations and people. Alternatively, they may be fixed theorists, believing situations and people are not changeable.<ref name="ReferenceC">{{cite journal|last1=Thompson|first1=J.A.|last2=Halberstadt|first2=A.G.|title=Childrens Accounts of Sibling Jealousy and Their Implicit Theories about Relationships|journal=Social Development|date=2008|volume=17|issue=3|pages=488–511|doi=10.1111/J.1467-9507.2007.00435.x}}</ref> These implicit beliefs determine both the intensity of their jealous feelings, and how long those jealous feelings last.<ref name="ReferenceC"/> |
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'''Malleable Theorists''' display engaging behaviours, like interacting with the parent or sibling in an attempt to improve the situation.<ref name="ReferenceC"/> They tend to have more intense and longer-lasting feelings of jealousy because they spend more time ruminating on the situation and constructing ways to make it better.<ref name="ReferenceC"/> |
'''Malleable Theorists''' display engaging behaviours, like interacting with the parent or sibling in an attempt to improve the situation.<ref name="ReferenceC"/> They tend to have more intense and longer-lasting feelings of jealousy because they spend more time ruminating on the situation and constructing ways to make it better.<ref name="ReferenceC"/> |
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'''Fixed Theorists''' display non-engaging behaviours, for example retreating to their room because they believe none of their actions will affect or improve the situation.<ref name="ReferenceC"/> They tend to have less intense and shorter lasting feelings of jealousy than malleable theorists.<ref name="ReferenceC"/> |
'''Fixed Theorists''' display non-engaging behaviours, for example retreating to their room because they believe none of their actions will affect or improve the situation.<ref name="ReferenceC"/> They tend to have less intense and shorter lasting feelings of jealousy than malleable theorists.<ref name="ReferenceC"/> |
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Older children tend to be less jealous than their younger sibling.<ref name="ReferenceB"/> This is due to their ability to mentally process the social situation in a way that gives them more positive, empathetic feelings toward their younger sibling.<ref name="ReferenceB"/> Older children are better able to cope with their jealous feelings toward their younger sibling due to their understanding of the necessary relationship between the parent and younger sibling.<ref name="ReferenceB"/> Older children are also better at self-regulating their emotions and are less dependent on their caregivers for external regulation as opposed to their younger siblings.<ref name="ReferenceB"/> |
Older children tend to be less jealous than their younger sibling.<ref name="ReferenceB"/> This is due to their ability to mentally process the social situation in a way that gives them more positive, empathetic feelings toward their younger sibling.<ref name="ReferenceB"/> Older children are better able to cope with their jealous feelings toward their younger sibling due to their understanding of the necessary relationship between the parent and younger sibling.<ref name="ReferenceB"/> Older children are also better at self-regulating their emotions and are less dependent on their caregivers for external regulation as opposed to their younger siblings.<ref name="ReferenceB"/> |
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Younger siblings' feelings of jealousy are overpowered by feelings of anger.<ref name="ReferenceB"/> The quality of the relationship between the younger child and the older child is also a factor in jealousy, as the better the relationship the less jealous feelings occurred and vice versa.<ref name="ReferenceB"/> |
Younger siblings' feelings of jealousy are overpowered by feelings of anger.<ref name="ReferenceB"/> The quality of the relationship between the younger child and the older child is also a factor in jealousy, as the better the relationship the less jealous feelings occurred and vice versa.<ref name="ReferenceB"/> |
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===Conflict=== |
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Sibling conflict is pervasive |
Sibling conflict is pervasive and often shrugged off as an accepted part of sibling dynamics. In spite of the broad variety of conflict that siblings are often involved in, sibling conflicts can be grouped into two broader categories.<ref name="ReferenceD">{{cite journal|last1=Campione-Barr|first1=Nicole|last2=Bassett Greer|first2=Kelly|last3=Kruse|first3=Anna|title=Differential Associations Between Domains of Sibling Conflict and Adolescent Emotional Adjustment|journal=Child Development|date=May–June 2013|volume=84|issue=3|pages=938–954|doi=10.1111/cdev.12022|pmid=23278528}}</ref> The first category is conflict about equality or fairness. It is not uncommon to see siblings who think that their sibling is favored by their teachers, peers, or especially their parents. In fact it is not uncommon to see siblings who both think that their parents favor the other sibling. Perceived inequalities in the division of resources such as who got a larger dessert also fall into this category of conflict. This form of conflict seems to be more prevalent in the younger sibling.<ref name="ReferenceD"/> |
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The second category of conflict involves an invasion of a |
The second category of conflict involves an invasion of a child's perceived personal domain by their sibling. An example of this type of conflict is when a child enters their sibling's room when they are not welcome, or when a child crosses over into their sibling's side of the car in a long road trip. These types of fights seem to be more important to older siblings due to their larger desire for independence.<ref name="ReferenceD"/> |
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===Warmth=== |
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Sibling warmth is a term for the degree of affection and companionship shared by siblings. Sibling warmth seems to have an effect on siblings. Higher sibling warmth is related to better [[social skill]] and higher perceived social competence. Even in cases where there is a high level of sibling conflict if there is also a high level of sibling warmth then social skills and competence |
Sibling warmth is a term for the degree of affection and companionship shared by siblings. Sibling warmth seems to have an effect on siblings. Higher sibling warmth is related to better [[social skill]] and higher perceived social competence. Even in cases where there is a high level of sibling conflict if there is also a high level of sibling warmth then social skills and competence remain unaffected.<ref name="ReferenceE">{{cite journal|last1=Buist|first1=Kirsten L.|last2=Vermande|first2=Marjolijn|title=Sibling Relationship Patterns and Their Associations with Child Competence and Problem Behavior|journal=Journal of Family Psychology|date=2014|volume=28|issue=4|pages=529–537|doi=10.1037/a0036990|pmid=24866727|s2cid=44281287}}</ref> |
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===Negative effects of |
===Negative effects of conflict=== |
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[[File:Sibling Conflict.jpg|thumb|Sibling |
[[File:Sibling Conflict.jpg|thumb|Sibling physical conflict]] |
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The saying that people "fight like siblings" shows just how charged sibling conflict can be and how well recognized sibling squabbles are. In spite of how widely acknowledged these squabbles can be, sibling conflict can have several impacts on the sibling pair. It has been shown that increased levels of sibling conflict are related to higher levels of anxiety and depression in siblings, along with lower levels of self-worth and lower levels of academic competence. In addition, sibling warmth is not a protective factor for the negative effects of [[anxiety]], [[Depression (mood)|depression]], lack of [[self-worth]] and lower levels of academic competence. This means that sibling warmth does not counteract these negative effects.<ref |
The saying that people "fight like siblings" shows just how charged sibling conflict can be and how well recognized sibling squabbles are. In spite of how widely acknowledged these squabbles can be, sibling conflict can have several impacts on the sibling pair. It has been shown that increased levels of sibling conflict are related to higher levels of anxiety and depression in siblings, along with lower levels of self-worth and lower levels of academic competence. In addition, sibling warmth is not a protective factor for the negative effects of [[anxiety]], [[Depression (mood)|depression]], lack of [[self-worth]] and lower levels of academic competence. This means that sibling warmth does not counteract these negative effects.<ref name="ReferenceE"/> Sibling conflict is also linked to an increase in more risky behavior including: smoking cigarettes, skipping days of school, contact with the police, and other behaviors in Caucasian sibling pairs with the exception of firstborns with younger brothers. Except for the elder brother in this pair sibling conflict is positively correlated with risky behavior, thus sibling conflict may be a [[Risk factor (disambiguation)|risk factor]] for behavioral problems.<ref>{{cite journal|last1=Solmeyer|first1=Anna|last2=McHale|first2=Susan|last3=Crouter|first3=Ann|title=Longitudinal Associations Between Sibling Relationship Qualities and Risky Behavior Across Adolescence|journal=Developmental Psychology|date=February 2014|volume=50|issue=2|pages=600–610|doi=10.1037/a0033207|pmid=23772819|pmc=3797172}}</ref> |
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A study on what the topic of the fight was (invasion of personal domain or inequality) also shows that the topic of the fight may have a result on the effects of the conflict. This study showed that sibling conflict over personal domain were related to lower levels of self-esteem, and sibling conflict over perceived inequalities seem to be more related to depressive symptoms. However, the study also showed that greater depressive and anxious symptoms were also related to more frequent sibling conflict and more intense sibling conflict.<ref |
A study on what the topic of the fight was (invasion of personal domain or inequality) also shows that the topic of the fight may have a result on the effects of the conflict. This study showed that sibling conflict over personal domain were related to lower levels of self-esteem, and sibling conflict over perceived inequalities seem to be more related to depressive symptoms. However, the study also showed that greater depressive and anxious symptoms were also related to more frequent sibling conflict and more intense sibling conflict.<ref name="ReferenceD"/> |
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===Parental management techniques of |
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Techniques used by parents to manage their children's conflicts include parental non-intervention, child-centered parental intervention strategies, and more rarely the encouragement of physical conflict between siblings. Parental non-intervention included techniques in which the parent ignores the siblings' conflict and lets them work it out between themselves without outside guidance. In some cases, this technique is chosen to avoid situations in which the parent decides which sibling is in the right and may favor one sibling over the other, however, by following this technique the parent may sacrifice the opportunity to instruct their children on how to deal with conflict. Child-centered parental interventions include techniques in which the parent mediates the argument between the two children and helps them come to an agreement. Using this technique, parents may help model how the children can deal with conflicts in the future; however, parents should avoid dictating the outcome to the children, and make sure that they are mediating the argument making suggestions, allowing the children to decide the outcome. This may be especially important when some of the children have autism.<ref>{{cite journal |last1=O’Brien |first1=O’Brien, Zachariah |last2=Cuskelly |first2=Monica |last3=Slaughter |first3=Virginia |title=Social behaviors of children with ASD during play with siblings and parents: parental perceptions |journal=Research in Developmental Disabilities |date=2020 |volume=97 |page=103525 |doi=10.1016/j.ridd.2019.103525 |pmid=31838314 |s2cid=209385053 |url=https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0891422219301921 |access-date=18 May 2021}}</ref> Techniques in which parents encourage physical aggression between siblings may be chosen by the parents to help children deal with aggression in the future, however, this technique does not appear to be effective as it is linked to greater conflict levels between children. Parental non-intervention is also linked to higher levels of sibling conflict, and lower levels of sibling warmth. It appears that child-centered parental interventions have the best effect on sibling's relationship with a link to greater levels of sibling warmth and lower levels of sibling conflict.<ref>{{cite journal|last1=Kazura|first1=Kerry|last2=Tucker|first2=Corinna|title=Parental Responses to School-aged Children's Sibling Conflict|journal=Journal of Child and Family Studies|date=July 2013|volume=22|issue=5|pages=737–745|doi=10.1007/s10826-013-9741-2|s2cid=144899282}}</ref> |
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===Long-term effects of |
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Studies on social skill and personality differences between [[only child]]ren and children with siblings suggest that overall the presence of a sibling does not have any effect on the child as an adult.<ref>{{cite journal|last1=Riggio|first1=Heidi|title=Personality and Social Skill Differences Between Adults With and Without Siblings|journal=The Journal of Psychology|date=September 1999|volume=133|issue=5|pages=514–522|doi=10.1080/00223989909599759|pmid=10507140}}</ref> |
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==Gender roles |
==Gender roles among children and parents== |
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There have always been some differences between siblings, especially different sex siblings. Often, different sex sibling may consider things to be unfair because their brother or sister is allowed to do certain things because of their gender, while they get to do something less fun or just different. McHale and her colleague conducted a [[longitudinal study]] using middle-childhood aged children and observed the way in which the parents contributed to stereotypical attitudes in their kids. In their study the experimenters analysed two different types of families, one with the same sex siblings, and the other with different sex siblings, as well as the children's birth order.<ref name=McHale99/> The experiment was conducted using phone interviews, in which the experimenters would ask the children about the activities they performed throughout their day outside of school.<ref name=McHale99/> The experimenters found that in the homes where there were mixed gender kids, and the father held traditional values, the kids also held traditional values and therefore also played gender based roles in the home.<ref name=McHale99/> In contrast, in homes where the father did not hold traditional values, the house chores were divided more equally among his kids.<ref name=McHale99/> However, if fathers had two male children, the younger male tended to help more with household chores, but as he reached his teenage years the younger child stopped being as helpful around the house. However, education may be a [[confounder]] affecting both the father's attitude and the siblings' behavior, and the mother's attitudes did not have a noticeable impact.<ref name=McHale99>{{cite journal|last1=McHale|first1=Susan M.|last2=Crouter|first2=Ann C.|title=Family Context and Gender Role Socialization in Middle Childhood: Comparing Girls to Boys|date=1999|volume=70|issue=4|pages=990–994|doi=10.1111/1467-8624.00072|journal=Child Development|pmid=10446731}}</ref> |
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There has not been an extreme amount of studies done on gender role differentiation between siblings; however there are very interesting concepts to observe in the studies that have been conducted. For one, how do parents help shape gender oriented tasks and how does it affect children in the future? Another interesting thing to observe is the relationship mothers have towards their young infants. |
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==Westermarck effect== |
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Anthropologist [[Edvard Westermarck]] found that children who are brought up together as siblings are desensitized to [[sexual attraction]] to one another later in life. This is known as the [[Westermarck Effect]]. It can be seen in biological and adoptive families, but also in other situations where children are brought up in close contact, such as the [[Israel]]i [[kibbutz]] system and the Chinese [[shim-pua marriage]].<ref>Westermarck, E.A. (1921). ''The history of human marriage'', 5th edn. London: Macmillan, 1921.</ref><ref>{{cite journal |author=Arthur P. Wolf |title=Childhood Association and Sexual Attraction: A Further Test of the Westermarck Hypothesis |journal=American Anthropologist |volume=72 |issue=3 |jstor=672994 |pages=503–515 |year=1970 |doi=10.1525/aa.1970.72.3.02a00010 |doi-access=free }}</ref> |
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There has always been some type of differences between siblings, especially different sex siblings. Often, different sex sibling may consider things to be unfair because his/her brother/sister is allowed to do certain things just because of his or her gender, while he or she gets to do something less amusing or just plain different. McHale and her colleague conducted a [[longitudinal study]] using middle age children and observed the way in which the parents contributed to stereotypical attitudes in their kids.<ref>{{cite journal|last1=McHale|first1=Susan M.|last2=Crouter|first2=Ann C.|title=Family Context and Gender Role Socialization in Middle Childhood: Comparing Girls to Boys|date=1999|volume=70|issue=4|pages=990|url=http://0-web.a.ebscohost.com.library.capilanou.ca/ehost/detail/detail?vid=31&sid=660ff659-dda1-44d5-9576-fbf3fcbac385%40sessionmgr4001&hid=4206&bdata=JnNpdGU9ZWhvc3QtbGl2ZSZzY29wZT1zaXRl#db=a9h&AN=2163800}}</ref> In their study the experimenters analysed two different types of families, one with the same sex siblings, and the other with different sex siblings, as well as the children’s birth order.<ref>{{cite journal|last1=McHale|first1=Susan M.|last2=Crouter|first2=Ann C.|title=Family Context and Gender Role Socialization in Middle Childhood: Comparing Girls to Boys|date=1999|volume=70|issue=4|pages=995–996|url=http://0-web.a.ebscohost.com.library.capilanou.ca/ehost/detail/detail?vid=31&sid=660ff659-dda1-44d5-9576-fbf3fcbac385%40sessionmgr4001&hid=4206&bdata=JnNpdGU9ZWhvc3QtbGl2ZSZzY29wZT1zaXRl#db=a9h&AN=2163800}}</ref> The experiment was conducted over phone interviews, in where the experimenters would ask the children about the activities they performed throughout their day outside of school.<ref>{{cite journal|last1=McHale|first1=Susan M.|last2=Crouter|first2=Ann C.|title=Family Context and Gender Role Socialization in Middle Childhood: Comparing Girls to Boys|date=1999|volume=70|issue=4|pages=994|url=http://0-web.a.ebscohost.com.library.capilanou.ca/ehost/detail/detail?vid=31&sid=660ff659-dda1-44d5-9576-fbf3fcbac385%40sessionmgr4001&hid=4206&bdata=JnNpdGU9ZWhvc3QtbGl2ZSZzY29wZT1zaXRl#db=a9h&AN=2163800}}</ref> Surprisingly, the experimenters found that in the homes where there were mixed gender kids, and the father held traditional values, the kids also held traditional values and therefore also played gender based roles in the home.<ref>{{cite journal|last1=McHale|first1=Susan M.|last2=Crouter|first2=Ann C.|title=Family Context and Gender Role Socialization in Middle Childhood: Comparing Girls to Boys|date=1999|volume=70|issue=4|pages=996|url=http://0-web.a.ebscohost.com.library.capilanou.ca/ehost/detail/detail?vid=31&sid=660ff659-dda1-44d5-9576-fbf3fcbac385%40sessionmgr4001&hid=4206&bdata=JnNpdGU9ZWhvc3QtbGl2ZSZzY29wZT1zaXRl#db=a9h&AN=2163800}}</ref> In contrast in homes where the father did not hold traditional values the house chores were divided more equally among his kids.<ref>{{cite journal|last1=McHale|first1=Susan M|last2=Crouter|first2=Ann C|title=Family Context and Gender Role Socialization in Middle Childhood: Comparing Girls to Boys|date=1999|volume=70|issue=4|pages=999|url=http://0-web.a.ebscohost.com.library.capilanou.ca/ehost/detail/detail?vid=31&sid=660ff659-dda1-44d5-9576-fbf3fcbac385%40sessionmgr4001&hid=4206&bdata=JnNpdGU9ZWhvc3QtbGl2ZSZzY29wZT1zaXRl#db=a9h&AN=2163800}}</ref> However,if fathers had two male children, the younger male tended to help more with household chore, but as he reached his teenage years the younger child stopped being as helpful around the house.<ref>{{cite journal|last1=McHale|first1=Susan M.|last2=Crouter|first2=Ann C.|title=Family Context and Gender Role Socialization in Middle Childhood: Comparing Girls to Boys|date=1999|volume=70|issue=4|pages=999–1001|url=http://0-web.a.ebscohost.com.library.capilanou.ca/ehost/detail/detail?vid=31&sid=660ff659-dda1-44d5-9576-fbf3fcbac385%40sessionmgr4001&hid=4206&bdata=JnNpdGU9ZWhvc3QtbGl2ZSZzY29wZT1zaXRl#db=a9h&AN=2163800}}</ref> There are two important factors that need to be taken into account from this study. First, in cases where the father figure had more traditional values it was found that he also had less education than the other dads who participated in the study, and secondly the mother’s attitudes did not have a noticeable impact on her children’s gender role values.<ref>{{cite journal|last1=McHale|first1=Susan M.|last2=Crouter|first2=Ann C.|title=Family Context and Gender Role Socialization in Middle Childhood: Comparing Girls to Boys|date=1999|volume=70|issue=4|pages=990–994|url=http://0-web.a.ebscohost.com.library.capilanou.ca/ehost/detail/detail?vid=31&sid=660ff659-dda1-44d5-9576-fbf3fcbac385%40sessionmgr4001&hid=4206&bdata=JnNpdGU9ZWhvc3QtbGl2ZSZzY29wZT1zaXRl#db=a9h&AN=2163800}}</ref> Altogether this experiment is a good example of the way in which environment and [[kinship]] help develop certain perspectives on gender role association in children. |
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In a similar study, Croft and her colleagues observed the mother and father gender roles and examined whether their attitudes would have a long-term effect in the future occupation of their children.<ref>{{cite journal|last1=Croft|first1=Alyssa|last2=Schmader|first2=Toni|last3=Block|first3=Katharina|last4=Baron|first4=Andrews S.|title=The second shift reflected in the second generation: Do parents’ gender roles at home predict children’s aspirations?.|date=2014|volume=25|issue=7|pages=1419|doi=10.1177/0956797614533968|url=http://0-web.a.ebscohost.com.library.capilanou.ca/ehost/detail/detail?vid=35&sid=660ff659-dda1-44d5-9576-fbf3fcbac385%40sessionmgr4001&hid=4206&bdata=JnNpdGU9ZWhvc3QtbGl2ZSZzY29wZT1zaXRl#db=a9h&AN=97050118|journal=Psychological Science}}</ref> In this study mothers and fathers were asked a series of questions regarding their work hours and their chores at home, including who looked more after the children?<ref>{{cite journal|last1=Croft|first1=Alyssa|last2=Schmader|first2=Toni|last3=Block|first3=Katherina|last4=Baron|first4=Andrew S.|title=The second shift reflected in the second generation: Do Parents’ Gender Role at Home Predict Children’s Aspiration?|date=2014|volume=25|issue=7|pages=1422|doi=10.1177/0956797614533968|url=http://0-web.a.ebscohost.com.library.capilanou.ca/ehost/detail/detail?vid=43&sid=660ff659-dda1-44d5-9576-fbf3fcbac385%40sessionmgr4001&hid=4206&bdata=JnNpdGU9ZWhvc3QtbGl2ZSZzY29wZT1zaXRl#db=a9h&AN=97050118|journal=Psychological Science}}</ref> The study demonstrated that mothers felt like they were performing more household duties and they tended to look more after the children.<ref>{{cite journal|last1=Croft|first1=Alyssa|last2=Schmader|first2=Toni|last3=Block|first3=Katharina|last4=Baron|first4=Andrew S.|title=The second shift reflected in the second generation: Do parents’ gender roles at home predict children’s aspirations?.|date=2014|volume=25|issue=7|pages=1422|doi=10.1177/0956797614533968|url=http://0-web.a.ebscohost.com.library.capilanou.ca/ehost/detail/detail?vid=35&sid=660ff659-dda1-44d5-9576-fbf3fcbac385%40sessionmgr4001&hid=4206&bdata=JnNpdGU9ZWhvc3QtbGl2ZSZzY29wZT1zaXRl#db=a9h&AN=97050118|journal=Psychological Science}}</ref> Something that is quite remarkable in this experiment is the way in which the kids perceive their parents gender roles. When the kids were asked which parent they would be like when they grew up, some kids did not associate themselves with either male or female occupations, but rather remained neutral, while other leaned on being more like their same gender parent, but this, just like in the study conducted by McHale and her colleagues, depended on the father’s traditional values.<ref>{{cite journal|last1=Croft|first1=Alyssa|last2=Schmader|first2=Toni|last3=Block|first3=Katharina|last4=Baron|first4=Andrew S.|title=The second shift reflected in the second generation: Do parents’ gender roles at home predict children’s aspirations?|date=2014|volume=25|issue=7|pages=1422–1425|doi=10.1177/0956797614533968|url=http://0-web.a.ebscohost.com.library.capilanou.ca/ehost/detail/detail?vid=35&sid=660ff659-dda1-44d5-9576-fbf3fcbac385%40sessionmgr4001&hid=4206&bdata=JnNpdGU9ZWhvc3QtbGl2ZSZzY29wZT1zaXRl#db=a9h&AN=97050118|journal=Psychological Science}}</ref><ref>{{cite journal|last1=McHale|first1=Susan M.|last2=Crouter|first2=Ann C.|title=Family Context and Gender Role Socialization in Middle Childhood: Comparing Girls to Boys.|date=1999|volume=70|issue=4|pages=996|url=http://0-web.a.ebscohost.com.library.capilanou.ca/ehost/detail/detail?vid=39&sid=660ff659-dda1-44d5-9576-fbf3fcbac385%40sessionmgr4001&hid=4206&bdata=JnNpdGU9ZWhvc3QtbGl2ZSZzY29wZT1zaXRl#db=a9h&AN=2163800}}</ref> It was also found that girls who observed their parents playing out a gender type role envisioned themselves playing a role similar to their mothers', while daughters who lived in a home where parents did not have sex oriented tasks viewed themselves as a working women and family oriented females in the future.<ref>{{cite journal|last1=Croft|first1=Alyssa|last2=Schmander|first2=Toni|last3=Block|first3=Katharina|last4=Baron|first4=Andrew S|title=The second shift reflected in the second generation: Do parents’ gender roles at home predict children’s aspirations?.|date=2014|volume=25|issue=7|pages=1422–1425|doi=10.1177/0956797614533968|url=http://0-web.a.ebscohost.com.library.capilanou.ca/ehost/detail/detail?vid=43&sid=660ff659-dda1-44d5-9576-fbf3fcbac385%40sessionmgr4001&hid=4206&bdata=JnNpdGU9ZWhvc3QtbGl2ZSZzY29wZT1zaXRl#db=a9h&AN=97050118|journal=Psychological Science}}</ref> Altogether Croft and her team agreed that in order to create more equality, regarding work occupation the house work also needs to be divided equally.<ref>{{cite journal|last1=Croft|first1=Alyssa|last2=Schmader|first2=Toni|last3=Block|first3=Katharina|last4=Baron|first4=Andrew S.|title=The second shift reflected in the second generation: Do parents’ gender roles at home predict children’s aspirations?.|date=2014|volume=25|issue=7|pages=1418–1428|doi=10.1177/0956797614533968|url=http://0-web.a.ebscohost.com.library.capilanou.ca/ehost/detail/detail?vid=43&sid=660ff659-dda1-44d5-9576-fbf3fcbac385%40sessionmgr4001&hid=4206&bdata=JnNpdGU9ZWhvc3QtbGl2ZSZzY29wZT1zaXRl#db=a9h&AN=97050118|journal=Psychological Science}}</ref> |
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Mothers tend to spend a significant amount of time with their kids, especially throughout their children's first years of life. An experiment conducted by Goshen-Gottstein studied how Israeli mothers socialized with same-age siblings from newborns to three years of age.<ref name="0-web.a.ebscohost.com.library.capilanou.ca">{{cite journal|last1=Goshen-Gottstein|first1=Esther R.|title=Differential Maternal Socialization of Opposite- Sexed Twins, Triplets, and Quadruplets.|date=1981|volume=52|issue=4|pages=1255|url=http://0-web.a.ebscohost.com.library.capilanou.ca/ehost/pdfviewer/pdfviewer?sid=9c9393a1-c6f3-4845-8c4b-02c11b0f081b%40sessionmgr4002&vid=8&hid=4206}}</ref> Goshen paid attention to the differences mothers had regarding [[aggression]] and encouragement between their sons and daughters.<ref name="0-web.a.ebscohost.com.library.capilanou.ca"/> The experiment was conducted inside the home under [[Naturalistic observation|natural observation]].<ref>{{cite journal|last1=Goshen-Gottstein|first1=Esther R.|title=Differential Maternal Socialization of Opposite- Sexed Twins, Triplets, and Quadruplets.|date=1981|volume=52|issue=4|url=http://0-web.a.ebscohost.com.library.capilanou.ca/ehost/pdfviewer/pdfviewer?sid=9c9393a1-c6f3-4845-8c4b-02c11b0f081b%40sessionmgr4002&vid=8&hid=4206}}</ref> In her research Goshen observed thing such as: |
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*"Proximity Seeking:" It was found that both sons and daughters seek their mothers equally, but boys tend to be more encouraged to do so.<ref>{{cite journal|last1=Goshen-Gottstein|first1=Esther R.|title=Differential Maternal Socialization of Opposite- Sexed Twins, Triplets, and Quadruplets.|date=1981|volume=52|issue=4|pages=1259|url=http://0-web.a.ebscohost.com.library.capilanou.ca/ehost/pdfviewer/pdfviewer?sid=9c9393a1-c6f3-4845-8c4b-02c11b0f081b%40sessionmgr4002&vid=8&hid=4206}}</ref> |
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*"Aggressive Behavior:" It was discovered that boys exhibit more "aggressive behavior" towards their elders than girls. The mothers however did not demonstrate any differences in their [[reinforcements]], between their sons and daughters.<ref>{{cite journal|last1=Goshen-Gottstein|first1=Esther R.|title=Differential Maternal Socialization of Opposite- Sexed Twins, Triplets, and Quadruplets.|date=1981|volume=52|issue=4|pages=1259|url=http://0-web.a.ebscohost.com.library.capilanou.ca/ehost/pdfviewer/pdfviewer?sid=9c9393a1-c6f3-4845-8c4b-02c11b0f081b%40sessionmgr4002&vid=8&hid=4206}}</ref> |
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*"Helping:"The experimenter noticed that when mothers needed help they would often ask for help from their daughters.<ref>{{cite journal|last1=Goshen- Gottstein|first1=Esther R|title=Differential Maternal Socialization of Opposite- Sexed Twins, Triplets, and Quadruplets.|volume=52|issue=4|pages=1959|url=http://0-web.a.ebscohost.com.library.capilanou.ca/ehost/pdfviewer/pdfviewer?sid=9c9393a1-c6f3-4845-8c4b-02c11b0f081b%40sessionmgr4002&vid=8&hid=4206}}</ref> |
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*"Mother’s Gender Linked Talk:" It turned out that mother’s showed a similar amount of "gender linked talk" to all their children (meaning they used words that differentiated between boy and girl), but they emphasizes more "gender linked labels" for the children who were in the sex minority in their family.<ref>{{cite journal|last1=Goshen-Gottstein|first1=Esther R.|title=Differential Maternal Socialization of Opposite- Sexed Twins, Triplets, and Quadruplets.|date=1981|volume=52|issue=4|pages=1259|url=http://0-web.a.ebscohost.com.library.capilanou.ca/ehost/pdfviewer/pdfviewer?sid=9c9393a1-c6f3-4845-8c4b-02c11b0f081b%40sessionmgr4002&vid=8&hid=4206}}</ref> Goshen suggest that whenever the mother emphasized on "gender linked labels" it was because the mother was seeing that her child had different qualities than his or her siblings.<ref>{{cite journal|last1=Goshen-Gottstein|first1=Esther R.|title=Differential Maternal Socialization of Opposite- Sexed Twins, Triplets, and Quadruplets.|date=1981|volume=52|issue=4|pages=1259–1260|url=http://0-web.a.ebscohost.com.library.capilanou.ca/ehost/pdfviewer/pdfviewer?sid=9c9393a1-c6f3-4845-8c4b-02c11b0f081b%40sessionmgr4002&vid=8&hid=4206}}</ref> An example of this would be referring to a girl as a ballerina and a boy as a Police officer. |
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Altogether, children were treated almost equally until their third year of life when mothers began dressing them according to their gender.<ref>{{cite journal|last1=Goshen-Gottstein|first1=Esther R.|title=Differential Maternal Socialization of Opposite- Sexed Twins, Triplets, and Quadruplets.|date=1981|volume=52|issue=4|pages=1260|url=http://0-web.a.ebscohost.com.library.capilanou.ca/ehost/pdfviewer/pdfviewer?sid=9c9393a1-c6f3-4845-8c4b-02c11b0f081b%40sessionmgr4002&vid=8&hid=4206}}</ref> From this experiment it is evident that mothers do not show much differentiation between different sex siblings at a young age. However, as they begin to grow the mother begins regarding her children differently based on their gender. |
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==Westermarck effect and its opposite== |
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Anthropologist [[Edvard Westermarck]] found that children who are brought up together as siblings are desensitized to form [[sexual attraction]] to one another later in life. This is known as the [[Westermarck Effect]]. It can be seen in biological and adoptive families, but also in other situations where children are brought up in close contact, such as the [[Israel]]i [[kibbutz]] system and the Chinese [[Shim-pua marriage]].<ref>Westermarck, E.A. (1921). ''The history of human marriage'', 5th edn. London: Macmillan, 1921.</ref><ref>{{cite web |author=Arthur P. Wolf |title=Childhood Association and Sexual Attraction: A Further Test of the Westermarck Hypothesis |url=http://links.jstor.org/sici?sici=0002-7294(197006)2%3A72%3A3%3C503%3ACAASAA%3E2.0.CO%3B2-Y |publisher=American Anthropologist, New Series, Vol. 72, No. 3 (Jun. 1970) |pages=503–515 |accessdate=November 29, 2006}}</ref> |
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The opposite phenomenon, when relatives do fall in love, is known as ''[[genetic sexual attraction]]''. This term is used primarily for cases where blood relatives met only later in life, such as adoptees who are re-united in adulthood.<ref>[http://www.bbcamerica.com/content/334/index.jsp BBC America: Brothers and Sisters in Love]</ref><ref>{{cite news |title=Genetic sexual attraction |first=Alix |last= Kirsta |newspaper=[[The Guardian]] |date=17 May 2003 |url=http://www.guardian.co.uk/theguardian/2003/may/17/weekend7.weekend2}}</ref> For cases when the siblings did grow up together, see [[Sibling marriage and incest]]. |
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A sibling is a relative that shares at least one parent with the other person. A male sibling is a brother, and a female sibling is a sister. A person with no siblings is an only child.
While some circumstances can cause siblings to be raised separately (such as foster care), most societies have siblings grow up together. This causes the development of strong emotional bonds, with siblinghood considered a unique type of relationship. The emotional bond between siblings is often complicated and is influenced by factors such as parental treatment, birth order, personality, and personal experiences outside the family.[1]
Medically, a full-sibling is a first-degree relative and a half-sibling is a second-degree relative as they are related by 50% and 25%, respectively.[2][3]
Definitions
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The word sibling was reintroduced in 1903 in an article in Biometrika, as a translation for the German Geschwister, having not been used since Middle English, specifically 1425.[4][5]
Siblings or full-siblings ([full] sisters or brothers) share the same biological parents. Full-siblings are also the most common type of siblings.[citation needed] Twins are siblings that are born from the same pregnancy.[6] Often, twins with a close relationship will develop a twin language from infanthood, a language only shared and understood between the two. Studies corroborate that identical twins appear to display more twin talk than fraternal twins. At about 3, twin talk usually ends.[7] Twins generally share a greater bond due to growing up together and being the same age.
Half-siblings (half-sisters or half-brothers) are people who share one parent. They may share the same mother but different fathers (in which case they are known as uterine siblings or maternal half-siblings), or they may have the same father but different mothers (in which case, they are known as agnate siblings or paternal half-siblings. In law, the term consanguine is used in place of agnate).[citation needed] In law (and especially inheritance law), half-siblings have often been accorded treatment unequal to that of full-siblings. Old English common law at one time incorporated inequalities into the laws of intestate succession, with half-siblings taking only half as much property of their intestate siblings' estates as siblings of full-blood. Unequal treatment of this type has been wholly abolished in England,[8] but still exists in Florida.[9]
Three-quarter siblings share one parent, while the unshared parents are first-degree relatives to each other, for example, if a man has children with two women who are sisters, or a woman has children with a man and his son. In the first case, the children are half-siblings as well as first cousins; in the second, the children are half-siblings as well as an avuncular pair. They are genetically closer than half-siblings but less genetically close than full-siblings,[10] a degree of genetic relationship that is rare in humans and little-studied.[11] One notable example of three-quarter siblings is the family of American aviator Charles Lindbergh, who fathered children with two German sisters, Brigitte and Marietta Hesshaimer.
Diblings, a portmanteau of donor sibling, or donor-conceived sibling, or donor-sperm sibling, are biologically connected through donated eggs or sperm.[12][13] Diblings are biologically siblings though not legally for the purposes of family rights and inheritance. The anonymity of donation is seen to add complication to the process of courtship.
Non-blood relations
[edit]Related through affinity:
- Stepsiblings (stepbrothers or stepsisters) are the children of one's stepparent from a previous relationship.
- Adoptive siblings are raised by a person who is the adoptive parent of one and the adoptive or biological parent of the other.
- Siblings-in-law are the siblings of one's spouse, the spouse of one's sibling, or the spouse of one's spouse's sibling.[14][15] The spouse of one's spouse's sibling may also be called a co-sibling.[16][17]
Not related:
- Foster siblings are children who are raised in the same foster home: foster children of one's parent(s), or the children or foster children of one's foster parent.[18][19][20]
- God siblings are the children of the godfather or godmother or the godchildren of the father or mother.[citation needed]
- Milk siblings are children who have been nursed by the same woman. This relationship exists in cultures with milk kinship and in Islamic law.[21]
- Cross-siblings are individuals who share one or more half-siblings; if one person has at least one maternal half-sibling and at least one paternal half-sibling, the maternal and paternal half-siblings are cross-siblings to each other.[22][dubious – discuss]
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Erika and Efram are full siblings; to them, Abram, Aserna, and Agnia are their half-siblings, and Bein is their cross sibling. Julia and Janine were born to one father and two full-sibling mothers, and are thus three-quarter siblings. Jaden is their cousin, while Jrake and Jakob are their half-cousins. Jrake and Jaden were born to one mother and two half-sibling fathers, and are thus three-quarter siblings, however, their actual percentage of genetic relation is 31.25% instead of 37.5%. Jrake and Jakob are cross-cousins. |
Consanguinity and genetics
[edit]Consanguinity is the measure of how closely people are related.[23] Genetic relatedness measures how many genes a person shares. As all humans share over 99% of the same genes, consanguinity only matters for the small fraction of genes which vary between different people.[24] Inheritance of genes has a random element to it,[24] and these two concepts are different.[25] Consanguinity decreases by half for every generation of reproductive separation through their most recent common ancestor. Siblings are 50% related by consanguinity as they are separated from each other by two generation (sibling to parent to sibling), and they share two parents as common ancestors ().
A fraternal twin is a sibling and, therefore, is related by 50% consanguinity.[26] Fraternal twins are no more genetically similar than regular siblings. As identical twins come from the same zygote, their most recent common ancestor is each other. They’re genetically identical and 100% consanguineous as they’re separated by zero generations ().[24] Twin studies have been conducted by scientists to examine the roles that genetics and environment play in the development of various traits. Such studies examine how often identical twins possess the same behavioral trait and compare it to how often fraternal twins possess the same trait.[citation needed] In other studies twins are raised in separate families, and studies compare the passing on of a behavioral trait by the family environment and the possession of a common trait between identical twins. This kind of study has revealed that for personality traits which are known to be heritable, genetics play a substantial role throughout life and an even larger role during early years.[27]
Half-siblings are 25% related by consanguinity as they share one parent and separated from each other by two generations ().
A person may share more than the standard consanguinity with their sibling if their parents are related (the coefficient of inbreeding is greater than zero).[citation needed] Interestingly, half-siblings can be related by as "three-quarters siblings" (related by 3/8) if their unshared parents have a consanguinity of 50%. This means the unshared parents are either siblings, making the half-siblings cousins, or parent and child, making them half- aunt-uncle and niece-nephew.[28]
Percentage distribution
[edit]In practice, full siblings do not share exactly 50% of their DNA, as chromosomal crossover only occurs a limited number of times and, therefore, large chunks of a chromosome are shared or not shared at one time. In fact, the mean DNA fraction shared is 50.28% with a standard deviation of 3.68%,[29] meaning approximately 1/4 of sibling pairs share more than 52.76% of their DNA, while 1/4 share less than 47.8%.[30]
There is a very small chance that two half-siblings might not share any genes if they didn't inherit any of the same chromosomes from their shared parent. This is possible for full-siblings as well, though even more unlikely. But because of how homologous chromosomes swap genes (due to chromosomal crossover during meiosis) during the development of an egg or sperm cell, however, the odds of this ever actually occurring are practically non-existent.[25]
Birth order
[edit]Birth order is a person's rank by age among his or her siblings. Typically, researchers classify siblings as "eldest", "middle child", and "youngest" or simply distinguish between "first-born" and "later-born" children.
Birth order is commonly believed in pop psychology and popular culture to have a profound and lasting effect on psychological development and personality. For example, firstborns are seen as conservative and high-achieving, middle children as natural mediators, and youngest children as charming and outgoing. Despite its lasting presence in the public domain, studies have failed to consistently produce clear, valid, compelling findings; therefore, it has earned the title of a pseudo-psychology amongst the scientific psychological community.[31]
History
[edit]The theorizing and study of birth order can be traced back to Francis Galton's (1822–1911) theory of birth order and eminence and Alfred Adler's (1870–1937) theory of birth order and personality characteristics.[citation needed]
Galton
[edit]In his book English Men of Science: Their Nature and Nurture (1874), Galton noted that prominent composers and scientists are over-represented as first-borns.[32] He theorized three main reasons as to why first-borns are generally more eminent:
- Primogeniture laws: first-borns have access to their parents' financial resources to continue their education.[32]
- First-borns are given more responsibility than their younger siblings and are treated more as companions by their parents.[32]
- First-borns are given more attention and nourishment in families with limited financial resources.[32]
Adler
[edit]- First Borns: Fulfilling family roles of leadership and authority, obedient of protocol and hierarchy. Seek out and prefer order, structure and adherence to norms and rules. They partake in goal-striving behaviour as their lives are centred around achievement and accomplishment themes. They fear the loss of their position in the top of the hierarchy.[33]
- Middle Children: Feel like outcasts of families as they lack primacy of the first child and the "attention garnering recency" of the youngest. These children often go to great lengths to de-identify themselves with their siblings, in an attempt to make a different and individualized identity for themselves as they feel like they were "squeezed out" of their families.[33]
- Youngest Children: Feel disadvantaged compared to older siblings, are often perceived as less capable or experienced and are therefore indulged and spoiled. Because of this, they are skilled in coaxing/charming others to do things for them or provide. This contributes to the image of them being popular and outgoing, as they engage in attention-seeking behaviour to meet their needs.[34]
Contemporary findings
[edit]Today, the flaws and inconsistencies in birth order research eliminate its validity. It is very difficult to control solely for factors related to birth order, and therefore most studies produce ambiguous results.[33] Embedded into theories of birth order is a debate of nature versus nurture. It has been disproved that there is something innate in the position one is born into, and therefore creating a preset role. Birth order has no genetic basis.[35]
The social interaction that occurs as a result of birth order however is the most notable. Older siblings often become role models of behaviour, and younger siblings become learners and supervisees. Older siblings are at a developmental advantage both cognitively and socially. The role of birth order also depends greatly and varies greatly on family context. Family size, sibling identification, age gap, modeling, parenting techniques, gender, class, race, and temperament are all confounding variables that can influence behaviour and therefore perceived behaviour of specific birth categories.[36] The research on birth order does have stronger correlations, however, in areas such as intelligence and physical features, but are likely caused by other factors other than the actual position of birth. Some research has found that firstborn children have slightly higher IQs on average than later born children.[37] However, other research finds no such effect.[38] It has been found that first-borns score three points higher compared to second borns and that children born earlier in a family are on average, taller and weigh more than those born later.[31] However, it is impossible to generalize birth order characteristics and apply them universally to all individuals in that subgroup.
Contemporary explanations for IQ findings
[edit]Resource dilution model
[edit](Blake, 1981) provide three potential reasons for the higher scoring of older siblings on IQ tests:[32]
- Parental resources are finite, first-born children get full and primary access to these resources.[32]
- As the number of a children in a family goes up, the more resources must be shared.[32]
- These parental resources have an important impact on a child's educational success.[32]
Confluence model
[edit]Robert Zajonc proposed that the intellectual environment within a family is ever-changing due to three factors, and therefore more permissive of first-born children's intellectual advancement:[32]
- Firstborns do not need to share parental attention and have their parents' complete absorption. More siblings in the family limit the attention devoted to each of them.[32]
- Firstborns are exposed to more adult language. Later-borns are exposed to the less-mature speech of their older siblings.[32]
- Firstborns and older siblings must answer questions and explain things to younger siblings, acting as tutors. This advances their cognitive processing of information and language skills.[32]
In 1996, interest in the science behind birth order was re-sparked when Frank Sulloway’s book Born To Rebel was published. In this book, Sulloway argues that firstborns are more conscientious, more socially dominant, less agreeable, and less open to new ideas compared to later-borns. While being seemingly empirical and academic, as many studies are cited throughout the book, it is still often criticized as a biased and incomplete account of the whole picture of siblings and birth order. Because it is a novel, the research and theories proposed throughout were not criticized and peer-reviewed by other academics before its release.[39] Literature reviews that have examined many studies and attempted to control for confounding variables tend to find minimal effects for birth order on personality.[40][41] In her review of the scientific literature, Judith Rich Harris suggests that birth order effects may exist within the context of the family of origin, but that they are not enduring aspects of personality.[42]
In practice, systematic birth order research is a challenge because it is difficult to control for all of the variables that are statistically related to birth order. For example, large families are generally lower in socioeconomic status than small families, so third-born children are more likely than first-born children to come from poorer families. Spacing of children, parenting style, and gender are additional variables to consider.
Regressive behavior at birth
[edit]Regressive behaviors are the child's way of demanding the parents' love and attention.
The arrival of a new baby is especially stressful for firstborns and for siblings between 3 and 5 years old. In such situations, regressive behavior may be accompanied by aggressive behavior, such as handling the baby roughly. All of these symptoms are considered to be typical and developmentally appropriate for children between the ages of 3 and 5. While some can be prevented, the remainder can be improved within a few months. Regressive behavior may include demand for a bottle, thumb sucking, requests to wear diapers (even if toilet-trained), or requests to carry a security blanket.
The American Academy of Pediatrics suggests that instead of protesting or telling children to act their age, parents should simply grant their requests without becoming upset. The affected children will soon return to their normal routine when they realize that they now have just as important a place in the family as the new sibling. Most of the behaviors can be improved within a few months.
The University of Michigan Health System advises that most occurrences of regressive behavior are mild and to be expected; however, it recommends parents to contact a pediatrician or child psychologist if the older child tries to hurt the baby, if regressive behavior does not improve within 2 or 3 months, or if the parents have other questions or concerns.
Rivalry
[edit]"Sibling rivalry" is a type of competition or animosity among brothers and sisters. It appears to be particularly intense when children are very close in age or of the same gender.[43] Sibling rivalry can involve aggression; however, it is not the same as sibling abuse where one child victimizes another.
Sibling rivalry usually starts right after, or before, the arrival of the second child. While siblings will still love each other, it is not uncommon for them to bicker and be malicious to each other.[44] Children are sensitive from the age of 1 year to differences in parental treatment and by 3 years they have a sophisticated grasp of family rules and can evaluate themselves in relation to their siblings.[1] Sibling rivalry often continues throughout childhood and can be very frustrating and stressful to parents.[45] One study found that the age group 10–15 reported the highest level of competition between siblings.[46] Sibling rivalry can continue into adulthood and sibling relationships can change dramatically over the years. Approximately one-third of adults describe their relationship with siblings as rivalrous or distant. However, rivalry often lessens over time and at least 80% of siblings over age 60 enjoy close ties.[1]
Each child in a family competes to define who they are as persons and want to show that they are separate from their siblings. Sibling rivalry increases when children feel they are getting unequal amounts of their parents' attention, where there is stress in the parents' and children's lives, and where fighting is accepted by the family as a way to resolve conflicts.[45] Sigmund Freud saw the sibling relationship as an extension of the Oedipus complex, where brothers were in competition for their mother's attention and sisters for their father's.[47] Evolutionary psychologists explain sibling rivalry in terms of parental investment and kin selection: a parent is inclined to spread resources equally among all children in the family, but a child wants most of the resources for him or herself.[46]
Relationships
[edit]Jealousy
[edit]Jealousy is not a single emotion. The basic emotions expressed in jealous interactions are fear, anger, relief, sadness, and anxiety.[48] Jealousy occurs in a social triangle of relationships which do not require a third person. The social triangle involves the relationships between the jealous individual and the parent, the relationship between the parent and the rival, and the relationship between jealous individual and the rival.[48]
Newborn
[edit]First-borns' attachment to their parents is directly related to their jealous behaviour. In a study by Volling, four classes of children were identified based on their different responses of jealousy to new infant siblings and parent interactions. Regulated Exploration Children: 60% of children fall into this category.[48] These children closely watch their parents interact with their newborn sibling, approach them positively and sometimes join the interaction.[48] They show fewer behaviour problems in the months following the new birth and do not display problematic behaviours during the parent-infant interaction.[48] These children are considered secure as they act how a child would be expected to act in a familiar home setting with their parents present as secure bases to explore the environment.[48] Approach-Avoidant Children: 30% of children fall into this category.[48] These children observe parent-infant interaction closely and are less likely to approach the infant and the parent. They are anxious to explore the new environment as they tend to seek little comfort from their parents.[48] Anxious-Clingy Children: 6% of children fell into this category. These children have an intense interest in parent-infant interaction and a strong desire to seek proximity and contact with the parent, and sometimes intrude on parent-child interaction.[48] Disruptive Children: 2.7% of children fall into this category.[48] These children are emotionally reactive and aggressive. They have difficulty regulating their negative emotions and may be likely to externalize it as negative behaviour around the newborn.[48]
Parental effect
[edit]Children are more jealous of the interactions between newborns and their mothers than they are with newborns and their fathers.[48] This is logical as up until the birth of the infant, the first-born child had the mother as their primary care-giver all to themselves. Some research has suggested that children display less jealous reactions over father-newborn interactions because fathers tend to punish negative emotion and are less tolerant than mothers of clinginess and visible distress, although this is hard to generalize.[48]
Children that have parents with a better marital relationship are better at regulating their jealous emotions.[48] Children are more likely to express jealousy when their parents are directing their attention to the sibling as opposed to when the parents are solely interacting with them.[48] Parents who are involved in good marital communication help their children cope adaptively with jealousy. They do this by modelling problem-solving and conflict resolution for their children. Children are also less likely to have jealous feelings when they live in a home in which everyone in the family shares and expresses love and happiness.[48]
Implicit theories
[edit]Implicit theories about relationships are associated with the ways children think of strategies to deal with a new situation. Children can fall into two categories of implicit theorizing. They may be malleable theorists and believe that they can affect change on situations and people. Alternatively, they may be fixed theorists, believing situations and people are not changeable.[49] These implicit beliefs determine both the intensity of their jealous feelings, and how long those jealous feelings last.[49] Malleable Theorists display engaging behaviours, like interacting with the parent or sibling in an attempt to improve the situation.[49] They tend to have more intense and longer-lasting feelings of jealousy because they spend more time ruminating on the situation and constructing ways to make it better.[49] Fixed Theorists display non-engaging behaviours, for example retreating to their room because they believe none of their actions will affect or improve the situation.[49] They tend to have less intense and shorter lasting feelings of jealousy than malleable theorists.[49]
Different ages
[edit]Older children tend to be less jealous than their younger sibling.[48] This is due to their ability to mentally process the social situation in a way that gives them more positive, empathetic feelings toward their younger sibling.[48] Older children are better able to cope with their jealous feelings toward their younger sibling due to their understanding of the necessary relationship between the parent and younger sibling.[48] Older children are also better at self-regulating their emotions and are less dependent on their caregivers for external regulation as opposed to their younger siblings.[48] Younger siblings' feelings of jealousy are overpowered by feelings of anger.[48] The quality of the relationship between the younger child and the older child is also a factor in jealousy, as the better the relationship the less jealous feelings occurred and vice versa.[48]
Conflict
[edit]Sibling conflict is pervasive and often shrugged off as an accepted part of sibling dynamics. In spite of the broad variety of conflict that siblings are often involved in, sibling conflicts can be grouped into two broader categories.[50] The first category is conflict about equality or fairness. It is not uncommon to see siblings who think that their sibling is favored by their teachers, peers, or especially their parents. In fact it is not uncommon to see siblings who both think that their parents favor the other sibling. Perceived inequalities in the division of resources such as who got a larger dessert also fall into this category of conflict. This form of conflict seems to be more prevalent in the younger sibling.[50]
The second category of conflict involves an invasion of a child's perceived personal domain by their sibling. An example of this type of conflict is when a child enters their sibling's room when they are not welcome, or when a child crosses over into their sibling's side of the car in a long road trip. These types of fights seem to be more important to older siblings due to their larger desire for independence.[50]
Warmth
[edit]Sibling warmth is a term for the degree of affection and companionship shared by siblings. Sibling warmth seems to have an effect on siblings. Higher sibling warmth is related to better social skill and higher perceived social competence. Even in cases where there is a high level of sibling conflict if there is also a high level of sibling warmth then social skills and competence remain unaffected.[51]
Negative effects of conflict
[edit]The saying that people "fight like siblings" shows just how charged sibling conflict can be and how well recognized sibling squabbles are. In spite of how widely acknowledged these squabbles can be, sibling conflict can have several impacts on the sibling pair. It has been shown that increased levels of sibling conflict are related to higher levels of anxiety and depression in siblings, along with lower levels of self-worth and lower levels of academic competence. In addition, sibling warmth is not a protective factor for the negative effects of anxiety, depression, lack of self-worth and lower levels of academic competence. This means that sibling warmth does not counteract these negative effects.[51] Sibling conflict is also linked to an increase in more risky behavior including: smoking cigarettes, skipping days of school, contact with the police, and other behaviors in Caucasian sibling pairs with the exception of firstborns with younger brothers. Except for the elder brother in this pair sibling conflict is positively correlated with risky behavior, thus sibling conflict may be a risk factor for behavioral problems.[52] A study on what the topic of the fight was (invasion of personal domain or inequality) also shows that the topic of the fight may have a result on the effects of the conflict. This study showed that sibling conflict over personal domain were related to lower levels of self-esteem, and sibling conflict over perceived inequalities seem to be more related to depressive symptoms. However, the study also showed that greater depressive and anxious symptoms were also related to more frequent sibling conflict and more intense sibling conflict.[50]
Parental management techniques of conflict
[edit]Techniques used by parents to manage their children's conflicts include parental non-intervention, child-centered parental intervention strategies, and more rarely the encouragement of physical conflict between siblings. Parental non-intervention included techniques in which the parent ignores the siblings' conflict and lets them work it out between themselves without outside guidance. In some cases, this technique is chosen to avoid situations in which the parent decides which sibling is in the right and may favor one sibling over the other, however, by following this technique the parent may sacrifice the opportunity to instruct their children on how to deal with conflict. Child-centered parental interventions include techniques in which the parent mediates the argument between the two children and helps them come to an agreement. Using this technique, parents may help model how the children can deal with conflicts in the future; however, parents should avoid dictating the outcome to the children, and make sure that they are mediating the argument making suggestions, allowing the children to decide the outcome. This may be especially important when some of the children have autism.[53] Techniques in which parents encourage physical aggression between siblings may be chosen by the parents to help children deal with aggression in the future, however, this technique does not appear to be effective as it is linked to greater conflict levels between children. Parental non-intervention is also linked to higher levels of sibling conflict, and lower levels of sibling warmth. It appears that child-centered parental interventions have the best effect on sibling's relationship with a link to greater levels of sibling warmth and lower levels of sibling conflict.[54]
Long-term effects of presence
[edit]Studies on social skill and personality differences between only children and children with siblings suggest that overall the presence of a sibling does not have any effect on the child as an adult.[55]
Gender roles among children and parents
[edit]There have always been some differences between siblings, especially different sex siblings. Often, different sex sibling may consider things to be unfair because their brother or sister is allowed to do certain things because of their gender, while they get to do something less fun or just different. McHale and her colleague conducted a longitudinal study using middle-childhood aged children and observed the way in which the parents contributed to stereotypical attitudes in their kids. In their study the experimenters analysed two different types of families, one with the same sex siblings, and the other with different sex siblings, as well as the children's birth order.[56] The experiment was conducted using phone interviews, in which the experimenters would ask the children about the activities they performed throughout their day outside of school.[56] The experimenters found that in the homes where there were mixed gender kids, and the father held traditional values, the kids also held traditional values and therefore also played gender based roles in the home.[56] In contrast, in homes where the father did not hold traditional values, the house chores were divided more equally among his kids.[56] However, if fathers had two male children, the younger male tended to help more with household chores, but as he reached his teenage years the younger child stopped being as helpful around the house. However, education may be a confounder affecting both the father's attitude and the siblings' behavior, and the mother's attitudes did not have a noticeable impact.[56]
Westermarck effect
[edit]Anthropologist Edvard Westermarck found that children who are brought up together as siblings are desensitized to sexual attraction to one another later in life. This is known as the Westermarck Effect. It can be seen in biological and adoptive families, but also in other situations where children are brought up in close contact, such as the Israeli kibbutz system and the Chinese shim-pua marriage.[57][58]
See also
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These [calculations] will enable us... to predict the probable character in any individual from a knowledge of one or more parents or brethren ("siblings," = brothers or sisters).
- ^ Elizabeth Grace Wang. "Gone But Not Forgotten: Persistence and Revival in the History of English Word Loss" (PDF). pp. 35–36.
The primary word under consideration in this chapter is sibling, which during the Old English period referred simply to a relation, not necessarily to a brother or sister, as in the modern use of the term. The last recorded use in the Oxford English Dictionary in the relative sense is in 1425. There are no records at all of the word for the next 500 years, although its derivational base sib remained in use throughout those years. It was in fact the term sib which, when employed specifically in the fields of anthropology and genetics, gave rise to the readoption of sibling. Sibling, in the narrower modern sense of describing the relationship between two people sharing a common parent, filled a semantic gap in the English lexicon, as there previously was no term to describe the fraternal relationship that did not specify gender. It is clear from early uses of sibling in the 20th century that the writer did not expect the reader to be familiar with the word, as the translator's note from a German eugenics book, Human Heredity explains, 'The word "sib" or "sibling" is coming into use in genetics in the English-speaking world, as an equivalent of the convenient German term "Geschwister" and as a general name for all children born of the same parents, that is to say, to denote brothers and sisters without distinction of sex.' (Baur 1931: 508 in sibling, OED). Likewise, an article in the journal Biometrika from 1903 contains the clarification, '"siblings"=brothers or sisters,' when employing the term. Thus we observe an interesting phenomenon of a native English word being reintroduced to native English speakers, who clearly have no knowledge of it.
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Further reading
[edit]- Kluger, Jeffrey (2012). The Sibling Effect: What the Bonds Among Brothers and Sisters Reveal About Us. Penguin. ISBN 978-1594486111.
External links
[edit]- Media related to Siblings at Wikimedia Commons
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