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'''Self-marriage''' or '''sologamy'''<ref>Berg-Cross, Linda, et al. "Single professional women: A global phenomenon challenges and opportunities." Journal of International Women's Studies 5.5 (2013): 34-59.</ref> is marriage by a person to oneself.<ref><!--Dead link: http://www.freep.com/apps/pbcs.dll/article?AID=/20080604/COL03/806040303/1081--> Cooper, Desiree. "Finding yourself in self-marriage." ''[[Detroit Free Press]]''.</ref><ref>{{cite web |url=http://www.geocities.com/athens/acropolis/8392/selfmarriage.html |title=Self-Marriage |first=Mike |last=McMillan |archiveurl=http://www.webcitation.org/query?url=http://www.geocities.com/athens/acropolis/8392/selfmarriage.html&date=2009-10-25+12:51:18 |archivedate=2009-10-25 }}{{Unreliable source?|date=February 2009}}</ref> It is known as a commitment that values [[self-love]], and [[self-compassion]] . Supporters of the practice argue that it leads to a happier life. <ref name="self">{{cite web|url=http://www.selfmarriageceremonies.com/about-self-marriage |title=About Self-Marriage |publisher=Self Marriage Ceremonies |date= |access date=2013-08-01}}</ref> The idea of such a ceremony is also described in the book ''Quirkyalone: a manifesto for uncompromising romantics'' by Sasha Caden. It can also refer to a [[self-uniting marriage]], that is a marriage without an [[officiant]].<ref>{{cite web | url=http://www.co.chippewa.wi.us/Faq/marraige_instruction.htm | title=GENERAL AND DETAILED INSTRUCTIONS FOR THE BRIDE, GROOM AND OFFICANT FOR COMPLETING THE MARRIAGE LICENSE APPLICATION AND ORIGINAL CERTIFICATE OF MARRIAGE}}</ref> Self-marriage is not the usual norm of union between individuals but a number of people have put it into practice, particularly women.{{fact|date=August 2016}} |
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Back then when a young lady was not married, but wanted independent they would marry themselves. This way they could "divorce" and get their own property. |
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==Ceremony rituals== |
==Ceremony rituals== |
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Some Self-marrying programs include giving guidance, practice, and support prior to the marriage. <ref>{{Cite web|url=http://www.selfmarriageceremonies.com/|title=Self Marriage Ceremonies - Peace in our hearts. Peace in the world.|website=Self Marriage Ceremonies|language=en-US|access-date=2016-03-09}}</ref> Ceremonies take almost exactly the same form as that of a regular marriage. They can include guests, cake, and a reception.{{fact|date=August 2016}} Also, the person can have a private moment in a room where they can express self-love with a mirror and a candle.{{fact|date=August 2016}} |
Some Self-marrying programs include giving guidance, practice, and support prior to the marriage. <ref>{{Cite web|url=http://www.selfmarriageceremonies.com/|title=Self Marriage Ceremonies - Peace in our hearts. Peace in the world.|website=Self Marriage Ceremonies|language=en-US|access-date=2016-03-09}}</ref> Ceremonies take almost exactly the same form as that of a regular marriage. They can include guests, cake, and a reception.{{fact|date=August 2016}} Also, the person can have a private moment in a room where they can express self-love with a mirror and a candle.{{fact|date=August 2016}} |
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Self-marriage or sologamy[1] is marriage by a person to oneself.[2][3] It is known as a commitment that values self-love, and self-compassion . Supporters of the practice argue that it leads to a happier life. [4] The idea of such a ceremony is also described in the book Quirkyalone: a manifesto for uncompromising romantics by Sasha Caden. It can also refer to a self-uniting marriage, that is a marriage without an officiant.[5] Self-marriage is not the usual norm of union between individuals but a number of people have put it into practice, particularly women.[citation needed]
Ceremony rituals
Some Self-marrying programs include giving guidance, practice, and support prior to the marriage. [6] Ceremonies take almost exactly the same form as that of a regular marriage. They can include guests, cake, and a reception.[citation needed] Also, the person can have a private moment in a room where they can express self-love with a mirror and a candle.[citation needed]
In popular culture
Cerca Travel reported by BBC and other media outlets have designed unique packages for the single brides that include the gown, hairstyle, limousine service, a hotel stay, and a photo album.[7]
Photographer Grace Gelder's Self Marriage was picked up by multiple media outlets in 2014 following an article in The Guardian newspaper.
In Chris Morris's television series Jam a middle-aged man marries himself.[8]
In Glee Sue Sylvester not only marries herself to herself, but also officiates the ceremony because she has determined that she is the perfect partner for herself. Carrie Bradshaw of Sex and The City marries herself. [9]
In Doctor Who episode The Time Of Angels, it is mentioned that The Church was against self-marrying when The Doctor was talking about the two-headed Aplans.
Books
- Donaldson, Ken (2008). Marry YourSelf First! Say "I DO" to a Life of Passion, Power, Purpose and Prosperity. Retrieved June 13, 2012.
- Chappo, Linda (2010). Marry Your Self First: Your Key to Manifesting Loving Relationships. Retrieved June 13, 2012.
- Sharpe, Sara (2012). A Dress, A Ring, Promises to Self. Retrieved June 13, 2012.
References
- ^ Berg-Cross, Linda, et al. "Single professional women: A global phenomenon challenges and opportunities." Journal of International Women's Studies 5.5 (2013): 34-59.
- ^ Cooper, Desiree. "Finding yourself in self-marriage." Detroit Free Press.
- ^ McMillan, Mike. "Self-Marriage". Archived from the original on 2009-10-25.[unreliable source?]
- ^ "About Self-Marriage". Self Marriage Ceremonies.
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- ^ "Self Marriage Ceremonies - Peace in our hearts. Peace in the world". Self Marriage Ceremonies. Retrieved 2016-03-09.
- ^ http://www.thedailybeast.com/articles/2014/12/30/why-singles-should-say-i-don-t-to-the-self-marriage-movement.html
- ^ Peretti, Jacques (March 24, 2000). "Electric dreams". The Guardian. Retrieved 2008-06-24.
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