User talk:Juuitchan
Response to question posted to the Love talk page in 2002
(Better late than never.)
Juuitchan, if you're the same one that made the post, the best definition for love that I've seen is "one's desire that another be happy."
So, for romantic love, if you want to kiss them mostly because you know they'd enjoy it, then it's love. If you want to kiss them mostly because it'd feel good to you, then it might not be and you should probably try to balance your emotions. I'm afraid I can't help much there, other than suggesting that you think about who they are (principles they stand for and things they've done and strive to do). Hopefully, that way you could increase your respect for them (or find that you don't want to be with them, painful as that realization may be). I need to learn more myself, so I'm hoping that's close enough to help.